Ukuqeqeshwa kwekati ekhaya

Uma ukuqeqesha inja nokuyifundisa imiyalo ehlukahlukene akuyona nje ifomu elihle, kodwa futhi nesidingo, khona-ke endabeni yamakati, indaba yokuqeqeshwa ivame ukudida. KuyaYonke inja kufanele yazi okungenani imiyalo eyisisekelo, njengokuthi "Fu!", "Okulandelayo!", "Kimi!", Ukuze ngesikhathi sokuhamba bangabangeli ukuphazamiseka kwabanye, bangakutholi ukudla umhlabathi, ungambalekeli umnikazi, njll. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ukuqeqeshwa nokufundisa inja kuhlale kuwumdlalo, kuhlale kujabulisa, kuhlale kusondelene nomnikazi, lapho kumiswa ubuhlobo bokwethembana, nokuqondana phakathi kwe umuntu nesilwane esifuywayo. Kodwa ingabe udinga ukuqeqesha ikati? Njengoba sazi, lezi zilwane zihamba zodwa futhi, ngokungafani nezinja, bekungeke kwenzeke ukuthi zenze iqhinga elithakazelisayo lokuzijabulisa komnikazi.

Amakati angafundiswa kalula ukuhamba ngethreyi, angagxumi phezu kwetafula, angamoshi ifenisha, njll., kodwa ngeke uwaphoqe ukuba ahlale, alale futhi anikeze i-paw on command. Futhi ingabe kuyadingeka? Kodwa uma ufuna ngempela isilwane sakho sikwazi ukwenza okuthile okukhethekile, noma unomntwana owathi, ephefumulelwe izenzo zesekisi, wanquma ukuqala ukuqeqesha inyamazane encane, ngakho-ke akukho lutho olungenakwenzeka!

Amakati athanda ukufunda amaqhinga. Kodwa ukuze umsebenzi wakho ube yimpumelelo, udinga ukukhumbula into ebaluleke kakhulu: ikati kufanele libe nesithakazelo!

Ikati lizokwenza iqhinga kuphela uma linquma ukuthi liyadingeka futhi liyathakazelisa kuye. Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo, uzoncamela ukucwilisa umcamelo awuthandayo. Impumelelo ibuye incike ekuziphatheni kwesilwane sakho: uma ikati lizolile futhi livilapha kancane, cishe ngeke liphefumulelwe umbono wakho. Uma isilwane esifuywayo sisebenza futhi sifuna ukwazi, unawo wonke amathuba okuphumelela!

Ikati lingafundiswa kuphela amaqhinga alula asekelwe ezenzweni isilwane esifuywayo esizenzayo nsuku zonke ngaphandle kokuqaphela.

Isibonelo, wonke amakati agxuma ngokuphelele. Pho kungani ungafundisi ikati ukweqa phezu kwenduku (induku)? Kwenziwa kanjani?

Ukuze uqale, mane ubeke umoba phansi. Vumela ikati, liwele igumbi, linyathele. Ngokushesha nje lapho ubona ukuthi "isithiyo" sidlulile, qiniseka ukuthi uvuza ikati ngokuphathwa. Maduze isilwane sakho sizoqonda ubudlelwano phakathi kwesithiyo kanye nokwelashwa futhi sizokweqa ngamabomu phezu kukamoba ukuze sithole ukwelashwa.

Ugqozi lokudla luqine kakhulu kumakati, futhi ukuphatha kuyizinsiza zakho ezingcono kakhulu zokuqeqesha. Ukuze ungalimazi impilo yesilwane sakho esifuywayo, khetha ukuphatha okulungile okuklanyelwe amakati ngokuqondile. Ungasebenzisi ukudla etafuleni! Naka ukudla okunovithamini, amaconsi, amamiksi futhi, vele, ama-tidbits nezinti zikaMnyams. Lezi zibiliboco azimnandi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi zinempilo. Zizoba yisikhuthazo esikhulu ekatini ukuthi lenze iqhinga futhi zizofaka isandla empilweni yalo.

Kancane kancane qala ukushintsha ukuphakama umoba. Uma nje ubona ukuthi ikati selicishe lafika esikhumbeni, phakamisa umoba kancane. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ikati lakho leqa isithiyo, livuze ngokuliphatha kahle. Ngokwandisa kancane kancane ukuphakama, uzofundisa ikati ukuthi ligxume phezu komhlanga - futhi nansi, umphumela olindelwe isikhathi eside!

Lapho ikati lifunda ubuqili futhi lithatha isithiyo ngokuzethemba, ungakwazi ukulinganisa imivuzo kancane futhi uvuze ikati ngokuphatha hhayi ngemva kokugxuma ngakunye, kodwa ngemva kokuningana. Uma isilwane esifuywayo siyeka ukukhombisa intshiseko, yehlisa izingalo kancane bese uqala ukunikeza ukudla futhi ngemva kokugxuma ngakunye okuphumelelayo.

Futhi ungakwazi ukufundisa ikati ukubamba ngisho nokukulethela izinto ezilula. Lokhu kulula kakhulu uma ulandela umthetho olula: into kufanele ihogele kamnandi ukuze idonse ukunaka kwesilwane sakho. Vele uphonse into ekati lakho, futhi lapho elifaka emlonyeni wakhe, shaya izandla zakho (phenya iminwe yakho noma wenze esinye isignali yomsindo) futhi umnikeze ukwelapha. Uma ikati likulethele into, futhi nikeza isignali ehlelwe kusengaphambili futhi ukhuthaze intombazane yakho ehlakaniphile.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ikati ngalinye linomlingiswa walo kanye nezici zokuziphatha. Buka isilwane sakho esifuywayo, imidlalo esiyithandayo, ukuziphatha kwaso. Kungenzeka ukuthi ikati lakho seliyazi ukwenza izinto ezimangalisayo, futhi udinga nje ukuzihlela!

Khumbula ukuthi akukho cala okufanele ikati lijeziswe ngokuqeqeshwa okuhlulekile, ngaphandle kwalokho uzomdikibalisa kunoma yisiphi isifiso sokufunda nokulahlekelwa ukuzethemba kwakhe.

Qiniseka ukuthi ukhuthaza ikati futhi ube nesineke ekuqeqesheni. Uma, naphezu kwayo yonke imizamo, isilwane sakho asifuni ukwenza amaqhinga, ungadangali. Akuzona yini lezi zilwane ezimangalisayo ezinhle ngisho ngaphandle kokuqeqeshwa?