Ikati elisendlini: fundisa noma uxoxisane?

Umthetho oyisisekelo wokukhulisa amakati ngempumelelo ukungazinaki okubi, uqinise okuhle. Sijwayele ukubona ukuziba njengento enophawu lokususa. Kodwa endabeni yesigceme esithambile, imayelana nokungagxili kokubi, hhayi ukugqugquzela isilwane esifuywayo ukuba siziphathe kabi ngokuqhubekayo.

Cabanga ngesimo. Umatasatasa usuku lonke, ikati lisala lodwa. Kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho eqala ukugoba noma ukuluma imilenze yakho, usukulungele ukulahla yonke into futhi unake ikati. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi lokhu kuzoba "ukunaka" okunjani: i-tirade ethukuthele noma ukwelapha okusha. Ikati belifuna ukunaka kwakho - futhi wagqolozela lesi siheho. “Yasebenza!", - ifana nekati. Ngokuzayo lapho enganakwa, uzophinde aqale ukudlala imigilingwane, ngoba okokugcina yindlela akuthola ngayo lokhu abekufuna. Ngakho abanikazi, ngokungazi, baqinisa ukuziphatha okungalungile kwesilwane esifuywayo.

Asikho isidingo sokusabela ngobudlova ekuziphatheni okungafuneki, ukuthukuthela, ngisho nangokwengeziwe izijeziso. Amakati ngeke aqonde ukuthi ufunani kuwo. Isijeziso siyawakhuthaza amakati ukuthi angakwethembi futhi aziphathe kabi ikakhulukazi lapho ungekho.

Kuthiwani ngokuqiniswa okuhle? Kunzima, kodwa kuletha imiphumela ebalulekile. Noma nini lapho isilwane sakho siziphatha kahle, sinikeze ubumnandi futhi usidumise. Ngisho noma ikati alenzi lutho olukhethekile. Akahlafuni izimbali, akazilahli izinto zakho ku-nightstand, akadli njalo ngemizuzwana emihlanu, kodwa uhlala ngokuthula eduze kwakho? Kuhle, wenze kahle, kungukuziphatha okuzolile okudinga ukuqiniswa ngokuphathwa. Kuzodingeka sishiye izinto umzuzu, sithole ubumnandi bese sinikeza ikati. Shesha ngaphambi kokuba agangile futhi. Lena indlela yokuqinisa okuhle.

Ukukhetha okuhle kokuphatha amakati ukuziphatha kwawo ozosebenza kukho kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuqinisa okuhle kusebenza lapho ikati likujabulela ngempela ukwelapha. Zama izinhlobo ezimbalwa zokuphatha futhi ubone ukuthi iyiphi eyenza isigceme sakho sibe nomdlandla kakhulu. Kuhle ukukhetha ukwelapha ngendlela yezingcezu ezincane ukuze ikati libe nesikhathi sokulidla ngokushesha futhi lizilungisele lona: “Nakhu, isikhathi lapho ngenza yonke into ngendlela efanele nalapho ngiklonyeliswa ngaso".

Ukuze uqonde isilwane sakho, udinga ukufunda ulimi lwaso lomzimba. Kunezincwadi eziningi nezindatshana zesayensi yezengqondo yezilwane ezizokusiza kulokhu. Ukuze ukuxhumana nesigceme kuhambisane, udinga ukufunda lezi zimpawu. Ake sithathe isibonelo. Umnikazi uphulula ikati ngomshini, ecabanga ngenye into. Futhi isimo sengqondo somngane onoboya singashintsha emizuzwaneni embalwa. Ukube umniniyo akazange andizale emafini, babezoqaphela ukuthi ngemva kokushaywa imivimbo emihlanu noma eyisithupha, ikati lamcela ukuba ayeke ukusebenzisa umzimba. Ikati liyaphusha, libheke emuva esandleni sakho, licindezele izindlebe zalo, linyakazisa isikhumba salo - futhi lokhu kuwuphawu oluqinisekile lokuthi akusadingeki ukuthi ulithinte. Ungayibambeli iwadi ezandleni zakho uma ilwela ukuhamba.

Zama ukungaphoqi isilwane sakho ukuthi senze okuthile, kodwa usikhuthaze ukuthi sithathe izinyathelo ezibheke kuwe.

Uma ikati ngokuzumayo libonisa ulaka, kodwa ungayiboni incazelo yalokhu, udinga ukukhombisa ngokuphuthumayo umngane wakho onemilenze emine kudokotela wezilwane. Noma ubani uzocasuka uma okuthile kubuhlungu. Uma udokotela wezilwane, ngokusekelwe emiphumeleni yokuhlolwa nokuhlolwa, ephetha ngokuthi iwadi yakho iphilile, sibuyela ezindabeni zokuziphatha. Inketho enhle kungaba ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe ku-zoopsychologist. Ngokuvamile abanikazi abaqondi kahle izisusa zokuziphatha kwabangane abanemilenze emine, ngakho-ke benza amaphutha afanayo emfundweni. Uchwepheshe uzokwazi ukucabangela isithombe sobuhlobo bomndeni nesilwane esifuywayo sisonke futhi abone inkinga.

Ngokuvamile abanikazi abaqondi kahle izisusa zokuziphatha kwabangane abanemilenze emine, ngakho-ke benza amaphutha afanayo emfundweni. Uchwepheshe uzokwazi ukucabangela isithombe sobuhlobo bomndeni nesilwane esifuywayo sisonke futhi abone inkinga.

Isizathu esiyinhloko sobudlova singase sibe isizinda. Isibonelo, umsindo oqhubekayo wesitimela eduze nalapho uhlala khona. Kodwa okunye kungase kube utshani lokugcina ekubekezeleni kwekati.

Ngokuvamile kuba nolaka oluqondiswe kabusha. Ikati liyasaba into elisaba ukumelana nayo. Ngakho-ke, ukhipha i-negetive kumuntu angesabi ukumnwaya noma ukumluma. Ikati alikwazi ukuphuma endlini yezwe, ngoba inja yomakhelwane omkhulu izomkhonkotha egcekeni. Kodwa ngenxa yokucindezeleka nokwesaba, angase azivumele ukuba abambelele emlenzeni wakho ngezinzipho zakhe. Awuhlangene nakho, ikati nje langena esimweni esicindezelayo, futhi wawuseduze. Izikhathi ezinjalo zibonwa yi-zoopsychologist.

Uchwepheshe wokuziphatha kwezilwane ezifuywayo uzokutshela ukuthi ungalikhulisa kanjani ikati lakho ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ukukwethemba.

Thatha ukuhlukunyezwa kwesilwane sakho ngokungathi sína futhi ungakuthathi njengomdlalo. Ulaka luhlale lunesizathu. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kudinga ukulungiswa, futhi okungcono ngemva kwesigameko esisodwa noma ezimbili.

Ngokuvamile amakati awumlutha wokucekela phansi ngenxa yesithukuthezi, ukuntula ukunaka kanye nelukuluku, isifiso sokuhlola umhlaba. Okubukeka njengokuziphatha okubi ohlangothini lwakho ukwaneliseka kwezidingo zemvelo zekati. Cabangela ukuthi ingabe uyalinikeza ikati lakho umsebenzi owanele womzwelo nongokomzimba. 

Umsebenzi wakho awukona ukuvimbela, kodwa ukunikeza enye indlela ephephile kumngane onemilenze emine ofuna ukukhipha amandla engeziwe.

Amakati adinga ukuzingela, ukuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, ukuxhumana nabanikazi bawo. Hamba ikati lakho ngamahhanisi, bukelani amavidiyo ajabulisayo namanye amakati namakati ndawonye, ​​amakati amaningi ajabulela ukubuka amafilimu ezilwane zasendle. Umdlalo uzosiza ukwanelisa umuzwa wokuzingela. Nikeza isilwane sakho ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zamathoyizi. Amaphazili anokudla ngaphakathi, izinduku ezihlekisayo ezinemisila yezimpaphe, amathoyizi ane-rustling catnip filling ukuze ama-mustachioed akwazi ukuhlela ukulwa ngaphandle kwemithetho.

Izindida ezinokudla noma izingcezu zokudla okomile ngaphakathi zizuzisa kakhulu amakati. Zihlala isikhathi eside, zibenze zihlakaniphe, zibenze bazizwe njenge-getter. Futhi amathoyizi anjalo okufundisa afundisa ikati ukuthi lidle ngokulinganisela futhi lidle kancane. Ngenxa yocezu ngalunye lokudla kufanele usebenze kanzima, ngakho ukudla kunwebeka isikhathi eside. Ochwepheshe batusa ikakhulukazi ukunikeza amathoyizi awusizo kangaka ezifuyweni ezithole amaphawundi ambalwa engeziwe.

Abantu bavame ukukhononda ngokuthi yonke impilo isiphenduke i-Groundhog Day, usuku olulodwa lufana nolunye. Kumakati, kuphambene ncamashi. Ukuzinza kanye nesimiso esicacile sokudla, imidlalo - yilokho abakudingayo. Lolu uhlobo "lwe-Groundhog Day" abalulindele kuwe.

Kwenzeka ukuthi ikati lilwela ukuluma, libonisa izici ezingezinhle zomlingiswa kuphela ngoba isimiso sakho somsebenzi sishintshile. Ubufika ngehora lesikhombisa, umphakele, udlale. Futhi manje ubuya ngehora le-11. Ikati lididekile.

Dala isimiso esicacile sansuku zonke. Vumela imidlalo nokuphakelayo kuhlale ngesikhathi esisodwa. Lokhu kubikezelwa kwezenzakalo kwenza amakati azizwe evikelekile. Uma ikati lijabulile ngempilo, alisafuni ukuganga kangaka.

Faka iqhinga elikhethekile esimisweni sakho sansuku zonke elizoqinisekisa ukuthi ikati lakho lilala ngendlela enempilo ngaphandle kokulala phakathi namahora ambalwa. Sekusondele isikhathi lapho wena ngokwakho uyolala, dlala imidlalo yangaphandle nekati, bese uliphakela ngendlela efanele. Isilwane esifuywayo esigijimayo nesigcwele sizohona kamnandi kusofa, futhi singakuvusi ngehora elingafanele.

Ukuvumelana kufanele futhi kubonakale engxenyeni yakho ekuqeqesheni isilwane sakho. Uma ikati lingavunyelwe etafuleni lokudlela, ngakho-ke alivunyelwe njalo lapho. Lungiselela ama-napkins epulasitiki anamathiselwe ngaphezulu ngetheyiphu enamaceleni amabili. Futhi wonke amalungu omndeni makawabeke etafuleni uma engasetshenziswa.

Uma ikati lakho lihlala likhala, bonisa njalo ukuthi awukuvumeli ukuziphatha okunjalo. Qeqesha isilwane sakho. Ngesikhathi sekhefu ekhonsathini yekati, masijabulele. Khulisa kancane kancane isikhathi ikati lakho elisidingayo ukuze lithule ukuze lithole ukwelashwa. Ngemva kwenyanga eyodwa noma ezimbili zokuqeqeshwa, ikati lizoziphatha ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele.

Kungani kuthatha isikhathi eside kangaka ukufundisa ikati ukuziphatha okuhle? Ngoba amakati awadlali. Ngisho noma umthathe endaweni yokukhosela, ukunakekelwa okuhlinzekiwe nokudla okuhle, ungalindeli ukubonga okusheshayo. Isilwane esifuywayo sidinga cishe inyanga ukuze sijwayele ikhaya elisha futhi sixhumane nabanikazi abasha.

Ukuze ikati lingabi nezizathu zokungaziphathi kahle, impilo endlini kufanele ihlangabezane nezidingo zayo. Susa zonke izingcindezi ongakwazi ukuzilawula.

Okokuqala, ikati elisendlini kufanele libe nendawo yalo yokuphepha, okungukuthi, indawo lapho ikati lingalala khona ngokuthula, liphumule lodwa lapho lifuna. Indawo encane yokulala ngaphansi kombhede ngeke isebenze. Kungcono ukuhlela indawo yokuphepha lapho ikati lizoba nombono. Uma indawo enjalo ingatholakali, idale ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ungafaka i-multilevel play complex for cats futhi uvumelane nezihlobo ukuthi akekho ophazamise isilwane esiphumulayo.

Kwenzeka ukuthi ukucindezeleka ekati kucasulwa ukungqubuzana nomunye wamalungu omndeni. Mhlawumbe omunye wabathandekayo bakho uhlala ephula indawo yomuntu siqu yekati noma emthethisa? Chazela umndeni wakho ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle.

Siza ikati lakho ligcine intshisekelo yalo empilweni. Kanye ngesonto, shintsha isethi yamathoyizi amzungezile. Ungagcina amathoyizi isilwane sakho esingawadingi njengamanje esitsheni se-catnip. Uma ikati lakho lingomunye walabo abangenandaba ne-catnip, iqhinga elinjalo lizosiza ukwandisa isithakazelo emdlalweni. 

Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungavali amehlo akho ezinkingeni ekuziphatheni kwesilwane esifuywayo. Ngokushesha uqala umsebenzi owakhayo wokulungisa ukuziphatha, umphumela uzoba ngcono. Yiba nesineke futhi usize umngane wakho onemilenze emine abe ngcono. Sifisela wena nezilwane ezifuywayo ubungane obuqinile nokuqondana!