Ukuzijwayeza Kwezinja Zasendle Ekuphileni Komndeni: Ukubikezela Nokuhlukahluka

Ngizokwenza ukubhuka ngokushesha ukuthi kuyadingeka ukusebenza nenja yasendle ngayinye ngokusekelwe kuzici ngazinye zesilwane. Ngincoma kakhulu ukusebenzela ukuvuselelwa nokuguqulwa kwenja yasendle eqenjini eline-zoopsychologist: amaphutha emsebenzini angaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu noma avuse ulaka noma ukucindezeleka enja. Yebo, futhi uchwepheshe ngokuvamile usebenza ngezinhlobonhlobo zamathuluzi ezindlela nemidlalo ehloselwe ukuthuthukisa ukuxhumana nomuntu. Kulesi sihloko, ngizogxila endleleni yokulinganisa ukubikezela nokuhlukahluka lapho ngivumelanisa inja yasendle nokuphila komndeni.

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Ukubikezela ekujwayelaneni nenja yasendle empilweni yomndeni

Khumbula, sesike sakhuluma ngokuthi inja yasendle isibona kanjani ekuqaleni? Siyizidalwa ezingavamile futhi ezingaqondakali, indlu yonke igcwele imisindo engaqondakali futhi mhlawumbe enobutha kanye nephunga lenja. Futhi umsebenzi wethu oyinhloko, esiwenza phakathi nezinsuku zokuqala ezingu-3-7, ukudala ukubikezela okuphezulu. Konke kuyabikezelwa.

Sinikeza inja ukhiye wokuqala wokusiqonda njengohlobo lwezilwane. Futhi lokhu sikwenza ngokubeka amasiko, amasiko amaningi ahambisana nokubukeka kwethu nokuba khona kwethu empilweni yenja.

Isibonelo, ukubonakala kwethu kungazelelwe ekamelweni lapho inja ikhona kungayithusa. Umsebenzi wethu uwukuthulisa futhi uphumule inja ngokusemandleni ethu. Ngincoma kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi uma ungena ekamelweni, isibonelo, ungqongqoze ohlakeni lomnyango, bese ungena.

Sibeka indishi yokudla. Ngendlela, okokuqala zama ukugwema ukusebenzisa izitsha zensimbi - umsindo wokuthi isitsha sihamba phansi noma ompompi bokudla okomile ezinhlangothini zesitsha okudala ungethusa inja. Ngokufanelekile, sebenzisa izitsha ze-ceramic - zinhle ngokubuka okuhlanzekile, futhi zithule impela. Ngaphambi kokwehlisa isitsha phansi, biza inja ngegama, cindezela eceleni, usho ukuthi yini ezoba isignali yokuqala ukudla.

Sibeka isitsha samanzi - babiza ngamagama, bangqongqoza eceleni, bathi: "Phuza", beka isitsha.

Sanquma ukuhlala phansi - sashaya phansi ngezandla zethu, sahlala phansi. Banquma ukusukuma: bashaya izandla, basukuma.

Shiya indlu - woza neskripthi, utshele inja ukuthi uyahamba. Abuyele ekhaya, amtshele lokhu ephaseji.

Izimo eziningi zansuku zonke ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzobona ukuthi inja, okwathi, lapho ishaywa ku-jamb ngaphambi kokungena ekamelweni, yagijimela ngaphansi kwetafula futhi yacindezela odongeni olude kakhulu lapho, iqala ukubalekela i-trot. Usacashile, yebo, kodwa kakade elele phakathi "kwendlu", bese ekhipha ikhanda lakhe. Futhi ngolunye usuku uvula umnyango futhi uthole inja imi phakathi kwekamelo futhi ikubuka.

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Inja engazange iphendule lapho ishaya uhlangothi lwesitsha ngosuku lokuqala izoqala ukuphendulela ikhanda layo esitsheni ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, izwa impama. Yebo, ekuqaleni uzolinda uze uphume ekamelweni, kodwa yonke into inesikhathi sayo.

Uyakhumbula ukuthi uMpungushe wathini kuNkosana? “Kufanele ubekezele.” Kudingeka futhi sibekezele. Inja ngayinye ihlukile. Ngamunye wabo unendaba yakhe, thina, ngokuvamile, esingaqagela ngayo kuphela. Ngamunye wabo udinga isikhathi esithile ukuze aqale ukwethemba.

Ukubikezela ezinsukwini zakuqala zokufaka inja endlini nakho kubalulekile ukuze kuncishiswe ingcindezi elandela ukuthwebula nokushintsha kwendawo, ukunikeza isimiso sezinzwa ukuphefumula. 

Ukudala Ukuhlukahluka Lapho Ujwayela Inja Yasendle Ekuphileni Komndeni

Kodwa-ke, masinyane kufanele siqhubekele phambili ekudaleni ukuhlukahluka endaweni yomdlalo wethu.

Ezinye izinja zinganikezwa ngokoqobo kusukela ngosuku lokuqala, ezinye - kamuva kancane, ngokwesilinganiso, kusukela ezinsukwini ezingu-4 - 5.

Izinhlobonhlobo zivusa inja ukuthi ihlole imvelo, kanye nelukuluku, uyazi, injini yenqubekelaphambili - nakulesi simo. Uma inja ikhuthele, ifuna ukwazi, kulula ukuyivusa ukuba ixhumane, kulula ukuyivimbela ukuthi "ingene ekucindezelekeni".

Futhi leli yiphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu engingathanda ukuligcizelela ngendlela ekhethekile.

Ekusebenzeni kwami, ngivame ukuhlangana nemindeni eyathi, ngobuqotho, ngenxa yomusa wayo, yazama ukungayicindezeli inja futhi, yanika isikhathi sokuyijwayela, ngaphandle kokuyithinta, ngaphandle kokuyivimbela ukuba iphile ngokwesaba kwayo. Ngeshwa, isihawu esinjalo sivame ukwenza iphutha: inja iyisidalwa esizivumelanisa ngokushesha. Futhi ivumelana nezimo ezihlukahlukene: kokubili okuhle nokubi. Kungani, zinja… Ezweni lethu labantu bathi: “Ukuthula okuntekenteke kungcono kunempi enhle.” Yebo, incazelo eyinhloko yale nkulumo ibhekisela endaweni ehlukile, kodwa kufanele uvume ukuthi thina ngokwethu sivame ukujwayela izimo zokuphila ezingakhululekile, esisaba ukuzishintsha, ngoba ... kuthiwani uma kuzoba kubi nakakhulu kamuva?

Sibona okufanayo endabeni yenja yasendle, enikezwe ithuba “lokululama” isikhathi eside ngaphandle kosizo lwangaphandle. Inja ijwayele indawo “yayo” ngaphansi kwetafula noma ngaphansi kukasofa. Ngokuvamile uqala ukuya endlini yangasese lapho, abantu abanozwelo bashintsha isitsha samanzi nokudla lapho. Ungaphila. Kubi, kodwa kungenzeka.

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Yingakho ngincoma kakhulu ukwethula okuhlukahlukene empilweni yenja ngokushesha nje lapho inja isiyilungele.

Izinhlobonhlobo zingaba ezintweni esiziletha nsuku zonke futhi sizishiye ekamelweni ukuze sicasule inja ukuthi izihlole lapho singekho. Izinto zingase zihluke ngokuphelele: kusuka ezintini nasemaqabunga alethwe emgwaqweni, ngephunga lomgwaqo, ezintweni zasendlini. Konke kuhamba kahle, konke kuzokwenza, cabanga nje ngokucophelela: ingabe le nto izothusa inja?

Isibonelo, ingabe isihlalo siyinto enhle ukwazi? Yebo, kodwa kuphela uma usuvele useduze nenja ngesikhathi sokujwayela, uma isivele iqalile ukukwethemba. Ngoba, ukuhlola isitulo sodwa, inja ingabeka izidladla zayo phezu kwayo ukuze ibone ukuthi yini ekhona phezulu (cishe izokwenza kanjalo), isitulo singanyakaza (noma ngisho siwe phansi). Kulesi simo, inja ingakwazi ukwesaba: ukulahlekelwa okubukhali kokulinganisela ngesihlalo esimangalisayo, ukubhonga kwesihlalo esiwile, lapho isitulo siwa, singashaya inja - lokhu ngokuvamile kuyisimo esibi kakhulu!

Into kufanele iphephe enja. Inja kumele ikwazi ukuxhumana nayo ngokuphepha okuphelele.

Ezinsukwini zokuqala, ngivame ukuncoma ukuletha izinto ezihlobene nokudla enja - amathoyizi okusesha alula kakhulu.

Okokuqala, isithakazelo sokudla sivusa inja ukuba ihambe emkhathini futhi ithathe izinyathelo ezisebenzayo ukuze ithole ukudla.

Okwesibili, ngesikhathi sokuthola ukudla, inja kufanele ibekezelele ukuthintwa endaweni ye-muzzle, ngaleyo ndlela siqala ukufundisa inja ngokuthula ukuthi inkani iyavuzwa: unganaki ukuthinta kwephepha - khuphuka uqhubeke, umbe, uthole umvuzo ngakho.

Okwesithathu, futhi, sifundisa inja ukudlala namathoyizi, futhi ikhono lokudlala lizodingeka kithi esikhathini esizayo ukuthuthukisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwenja nomuntu, ngenqubo yokuqeqesha. Futhi leli yiphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu, ngoba. ngokuvamile izinja zasendle abazi ukuthi ukudlala amathoyizi. Babengadingi – impilo yabo igoqela ukusinda, hlobo luni lwemidlalo ekhona. Bayeka ukudlala ngesikhathi besakhula. Futhi sizobafundisa lokhu ngenhloso.

Futhi okwesine, ngokuvamile izinja zithanda kakhulu imidlalo enjalo, zibalindile. Futhi yile midlalo esebenza njengebhuloho lokuqala ukuxhumana nomuntu.

Ngokuningiliziwe ngizogxila emidlalweni enjalo kwezinye izihloko. Manje sizobuyela ezintweni ezintsha endaweni yenja. Ngithanda ukuletha umqulu wephepha lasendlini yangasese enjeni - mvumele ahlole: ungayishayela, uyizame ezinyoni, uyikhiphe futhi uyiklebhule ngamazinyo akho. Isitsha sepulasitiki esilele sibheke phansi: ungabeka izidladla zakho kuso, usiphuce ngesidladla sakho, ungabeka into emnandi ngaphansi kwayo.

Noma yini, akukaze kube kuningi kakhulu.

Yiba nje inja lapho ukhetha into, cabanga njengenja ukuze uqonde ukuthi leyo nto izovikeleka yini noma ingathusa endle.