Ukhalelani upholi?

Kuzoba lula ukulumula upholi ekukhaleni uma uqonda isizathu salokhu kuziphatha. Kungaba nezizathu eziningi ezinjalo, ngakho-ke into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukukhipha izinkinga zempilo. Ubuhlungu nokungakhululeki kuvame ukuba yizimbangela zokuziphatha okubi kwezinyoni, futhi ukubonisana nodokotela wezinyosi ngeke kube yinto engafaneleki.

Imvamisa, opholi baklabalasa bevela … isithukuthezi. Uma inja ishiywe yodwa ekhaya ngaphandle kwamathoyizi, izokhonkotha futhi ikhale. Okufanayo nezinyoni. Upholi onesithukuthezi “uyacula” ukuze anakwe noma azwakalise ukucasuka kwawo. Esinye isizathu siphambene: isilwane sakho singase simemeze ngokujabula. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka lapho umoya ekhaya unomsindo futhi upholi ucindezelekile.

Umkhuba wokwenza umsindo ungadlula isilwane sakho ngesikhathi sokukhwelana. Ngokuvamile, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuziphatha kubuyela kokujwayelekile.

Izinyoni eziningi ziyatshiyoza njengoba zibingelela ekuseni. Kulesi simo, vele wamukele isilwane njengoba sinjalo futhi umnike ithuba lokujabulela usuku olusha.

Kodwa kuthiwani uma i-parrot ikhala hhayi nje ekuseni noma lapho isithukuthezi, kodwa cishe njalo? Ezinye izinhlobo zezinyoni zinomsindo omkhulu ngokwemvelo futhi akusizi “ukuziqeqesha kabusha”. Kodwa-ke, kunezimfihlo ezimbalwa ezizokusiza ukuthi okungenani uziphathe ngendlela efanele noma uzuze ukuthula. Ake sibale eziphambili!

• Qiniseka ukuthi izimo ozidalayo zifanelekile kupholi. Ingabe unethezekile ekhejini, ingabe unokwanele? Ingabe ulambile, ingabe womile? Noma yikuphi ukungaphatheki kahle kungabangela isilwane esifuywayo ukuba siklabalase.

• Beka amathoyizi amaningi ahlukene ngangokunokwenzeka ekhejini likapholi (ngaphakathi kwesizathu, ukuze angaphazamisi ukunyakaza). Upholi oke wadlala ngeke uphazamise abanikazi ngomsindo. Ngezikhathi ezithile, shintshanisa futhi ubuyekeze amathoyizi ukuze isilwane esifuywayo singalahlekelwa isithakazelo kuwo.

• Vumela i-parrot indize efulethini nsuku zonke ukuze yelule amaphiko ayo futhi ikhiphe amandla aqoqiwe. Qinisekisa ukuthi uvala amafasitela futhi ubhekisise inyoni ukuze iphephe ukuhambahamba.

• Vumela upholi wenze omkhulu umsindo ekuseni nakusihlwa. Izinyoni zithanda ukutshiyoza ekuphumeni kwelanga noma ekushoneni kwelanga. Uma ungaphazamisi kubo kulokhu, khona-ke uzoba nawo wonke amathuba okujabulela ukuthula imini nobusuku.

• Naka isilwane sakho. Khuluma futhi udlale newadi yakho kaningi, mqeqeshe, mfundise amaqhinga ahlukahlukene, mfundise ukukhuluma. Ukuthola ukunakwa komnikazi, i-parrot ngeke icele yona ngokukhala okungavamile.

• Khuluma ne-parrot ngamathoni aphikisiwe, funda ukushaya ikhwela kancane. I-parrot izothula ukuze ikuzwe kangcono, futhi izoqala ukulingisa inkulumo yakho elinganisiwe.

• Ungalokothi umemeze inyoni. Usuvele uqagele ukuthi kungani? Cha, hhayi kuphela ngenxa yokuthi isijeziso esinjalo asisebenzi nhlobo. Kunalokho, ngokuphambene. Izwa ukukhala kwakho, inyoni izolingisa ukuziphatha kwakho futhi izame ukukumemeza. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi inyoni ethukile noma ejabulile yenza umsindo omkhulu kakhulu!

• Vuza ukuziphatha okuhle futhi uzibe ukuziphatha okubi. Uma upholi ungamemezanga ngenkathi ungaphandle kwegumbi, yiphathe kahle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma upholi umemeza ukuze uthole ukunaka kwakho, unganaki ukuziphatha kwayo. Kulokhu, ngisho nokunganeliseki kobuso bakho kungase kube isikhuthazo kuye, ingasaphathwa eyokuphimisela okukhulu. Isixazululo esingcono kakhulu ukuphuma endlini buthule. Ekuqaleni, zilungiselele ukwanda ukuklabalasa futhi ube nesineke. Lapho upholi uyabona ukuthi ukukhala kwakhe akukuphazamisi, uzokwehlisa umoya. Buyela ekamelweni ngokushesha nje lapho upholi uyeka ukuklabalasa futhi usuthule okungenani imizuzwana eyi-10.

• Ungashiyi inyoni ngokuthula okuphelele, uyinikeze ngomsindo omhlophe. Noma, vula i-TV. Into esemqoka ayizwakali. Ngokuphambene nalokho abantu abaningi abakucabangayo, imisindo yemvelo igwenywa kangcono: uma upholi uzwa ukukhala kwenye inyoni, uzokwenza umsindo owengeziwe.

• Lawula ukukhanya. Gwema ukukhanya okukhanyayo ekamelweni lapho i-parrot isekhejini. Ebusuku, ungakhohlwa ukumboza ikheji ngendwangu ewugqinsi. Njengomthetho, ama-parrots adinga amahora angu-10-12 okulala ebusuku.

• Ungashintshi futhi ubekezele. Khumbula, ukubekezela nomsebenzi kuzogaya yonke into? Kodwa ungalindeli okungenakwenzeka esilwaneni sakho. Izinyoni ngokwemvelo ziyizidalwa ezinomsindo impela, zixhumana ngokukhala, ziveza ukuvunyelwa kwazo noma ukucasuka ngale ndlela, futhi udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungakwamukela kanjani!

Ngikufisela impumelelo enqubweni yemfundo kanye nobungane obuqinile nalowo onezimpaphe!