Kungani inja ingabi umholi womuntu?

Abanye abanikazi bamatasa kakhulu ngokugcina “isimo somholi” emehlweni enja yabo kangangokuthi sifana ne-paranoia noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Phela, ukube inja yazi ngalokhu kukhathazeka, bekuyomangala kakhulu. Kalula ngoba asikho nhlobo isisekelo salokho.

Phela umholi wenja akuyena oqala ukungena emnyango, kodwa nguye ohlinzeka ngezokuphepha nokwaba izinsiza.

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Ngakho uma inja yakho...

• Ayinqumi ukuthi uhamba nini futhi kuphi (futhi akanazo izihluthulelo zefulethini, akunjalo?)
• Ayinqumi ukuthi uzodlani futhi nini (ingabe usenaso isiqandisi onawo?)
• Akathengi noma aka-oda igilosa noma ezinye izinto (akanalo ikhadi noma ukheshi, akunjalo?)
• Ayikhethi lapho uzosebenza khona nokuthi iyiphi imfundo ozoyithola (noma kwakuyinja eyabhala i-resume yakho?)
• Akasiphathi isikhathi sakho (noma uyakufaka ozankosi kurediyetha?)
• Futhi njalonjalo ...

… kusengaphambi kwesikhathi ukuthi ucabange ukuthi inja yakho iyakubusa.

Nokho, uma inja yakho isabalalisa izinsiza, ngizokuphathela izindaba ezimbi. Sekwephuzile kakhulu ukuthi "uphuze i-Borjomi" futhi uxazulule inkinga ngokuphenduka kwe-alpha noma ukuzulisa isitulo.

Futhi uma inja "iziphatha kabi", kusho ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle empilweni yakhe, futhi kufanele kwenziwe okuthile ngale nkathazo. Kodwa lokhu akuhlangene “nemizamo yokuba umholi nokubeka esikhundleni.”

Uma ufuna inja yakho iziphathe kahle, sincoma ukusebenzisa izifundo zethu zevidiyo mayelana nokukhulisa nokuqeqesha izinja ngendlela ebonisa ubuntu!▼