Uzoqala nini ukuqeqesha umdlwane wakho

Abanikazi abaningi, ikakhulukazi abaqalayo, banemibuzo eminingi lapho bethola isilwane. Omunye wabo: "Ungaqala nini ukuqeqesha umdlwane?"

Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umdlwane ukhula kanjani.

Kusukela kumaviki ama-3 kuye kwayi-16 - 20, umdlwane unenkumbulo ebucayi kakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi phakathi nalesi sikhathi umntwana udinga ukuhlola abantu abaningi, izilwane kanye nezimo ngangokunokwenzeka. Eqinisweni, lesi yisikhathi esizonquma impilo yonke yenja.

Ngakho-ke, kunengqondo ukuthi le minyaka iyimpendulo yombuzo othi "Ungaqala nini ukuqeqesha umdlwane?"

Khumbula ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa akukhona nje ukufunda imiyalo. Usiza umdlwane ukuthi uqonde abantu kangcono. Ingane iqala ukuqonda lapho idunyiswa (futhi ngani), ifunda ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwamagama nokushukuma komzimba, inamathela kumuntu.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa komdlwane kwenzeka kuphela emdlalweni. Futhi cishe noma yikuphi ukuvinjelwa kungathathelwa indawo yiqembu elifundisa ingane ukuthi yenzeni kulokhu noma kuleso simo. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokugxumela kumnikazi obuyele ekhaya, ungahlala phansi - futhi uthole ukunakwa okuningi nokuphatha okumnandi.

Ungesabi ukuqala ukuqeqesha umdlwane wakho kusukela ngosuku lokuqala. Uma wenza konke ngendlela efanele, emdlalweni, ngeke umncishe ubuntwana bakhe. Kodwa hlukanisa impilo yomdlwane futhi uthole kangcono ukuthi yini eyithandayo nokuthi yini engeyiyo, yini eyesabayo, nokuthi yini ekhangwa yiyo. Futhi athuthukise ikhono lakhe lokucabanga.

Khumbula ukuthi indlela yokudlala iqala kumdlwane emasontweni amathathu kuya kwayi-3. Futhi uma weqa lesi sikhathi, esikhathini esizayo kuyoba nzima kakhulu kuwe ukudlala inja. Futhi umdlalo ubaluleke kakhulu ekuqeqesheni inja yanoma iyiphi iminyaka.