Inja ikhonkotha ngani?

Abanikazi abaqaphile kumele baqaphele ukuthi ukukhonkotha kwenja eyodwa kungase kwehluke kuye ngokuthi isimo sinjani. Abanye bangase ngisho, ngemva kokuzwa ukukhonkotha kwenja yakho, sho lokho ekufunayo nokuthi “ikhuluma ngani”. Ikhonkotha ngani inja futhi ingafunda kanjani ukuqonda ukukhonkotha kwayo? 

Esithombeni: inja ikhonkotha. Isithombe: pixabay.com

Umqeqeshi waseNorway, uchwepheshe we-cynologist uTyurid Rugos ugqamisa 6 izinhlobo zezinja ezikhonkothayo:

1. Ukukhonkotha lapho ejabule. Njengomthetho, ukukhonkotha lapho kujabule kuphezulu, ngezinye izikhathi ku-hysterical kancane futhi okungaphezulu noma okuncane okuqhubekayo. Kwesinye isikhathi inja ikhonkotha ngokulandelana, phakathi kwayo kuba nokuma kancane. Kulokhu, inja nayo ingabubula. Ulimi lomzimba wenja luhlanganisa ukugxuma, ukugijima emuva naphambili, ukutshikizisa umsila okunamandla, ukuzungeza.
2. igxolo lesixwayiso. Lo msindo usetshenziswa emhlambini noma phambi kwabanikazi. Ngokuvamile, ukwazisa ukusondela kwesitha, inja yenza umsindo omfushane nobukhali othi “Buff!” Uma inja ingazithembi, izama ukunyonyoba. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi inja isala ngemuva ukuze ithathe isivikelo salo lonke iphakethe.
3. Igxolo lokwesaba. Lamagxolo awuchungechunge lwemisindo ephakeme kakhulu, ethi ayifane nokukhonkotha kwenjabulo, kodwa ulimi lomzimba lubonisa ukukhathazeka kwenja. Inja icasha ekhoneni noma igijimela ngapha nangapha, ngezinye izikhathi iqala ukuququda izinto ezihlukahlukene noma izilume.
4. Ukukhonkotha kokuvikela nokuvikela. Lolu hlobo lwamagxolo luhlanganisa nemisindo ebhodlayo. Ukukhonkotha okunjalo kungaba kokubili okuphansi futhi kufushane, futhi kuphakeme (uma, isibonelo, inja isaba). Njengomthetho, inja igxuma ibheke entweni ekhonkotha kuyo, izama ukuyixosha.
5. Isizungu kanye nokuphelelwa ithemba. Lolu uchungechunge lwemisindo eqhubekayo, ngezinye izikhathi ithathelwa indawo ukuhhewula, bese iphinde iphenduke ibe amagxolo. Lokhu kukhonkotha kuvame ukuhambisana nenkolelo-mbono noma ukuziphatha okuyimpoqo.
6. wafunda ukukhonkotha. Kulokhu, inja ifuna ukuthola okuthile kumnikazi, ikhonkotha, bese ima kancane ilinde ukusabela. Uma engakutholi akufunayo, aphinde akhonkothe ​​aphinde athule ukuze abone ukuthi kwenzakalani. Kulokhu, inja ingase ibheke emuva kumniniyo ukuze iqiniseke ukuthi idonse ukunaka kwakhe, noma izame ukuxhumana nomnikazi wayo ukuze ithole umvuzo.

Esithombeni: inja ikhonkotha. Isithombe: maxpixel.net

Ukukhonkotha kuwumzamo wenja wokuxhumana. Futhi ngokufunda ukuhlukanisa ukuthi inja yakho ikhonkotha ngani, ungamqonda kangcono umngane wakho onemilenze emine.