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Abanikazi abaningi, ngemva kokufunda izindaba ezishaqisayo kuyi-Internet, babheka phambili ngokuthuthumela lapho umdlwane wabo ufinyelela eminyakeni yobusha. Esola ukuthi ngokuphazima kweso uzoshintsha asuke ku-cute fluffy abe udrako ophefumula umlilo. Kodwa ingabe konke lokho kusabisa?

Iqala nini intsha ezinjeni futhi izibonakalisa kanjani?

Iqiniso lokuthi inja iyakhula ingabonakala ezinyangeni eziyisi-6 kuye kweziyi-9. Amazinyo ashintsha, umdlwane uba nokuzethemba nokuzimela. Izinguquko ze-Hormonal kanye ne-neurochemical zenzeka emzimbeni ngalesi sikhathi, okuyinto, yiqiniso, ithinta ukuziphatha.

Kodwa ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kuzoshintsha kangakanani ebusheni kuncike kakhulu kumnikazi.

Uma amaphutha enziwa ekukhulisweni nasekuqeqesheni izinja, kule minyaka lapho zizizwa ngokucacile, futhi izinkinga zokuziphatha zivela. Kubandakanya uma kukhona ukwephulwa kokunamathiselwe (isibonelo, okunamathiselwe okungavikelekile) kwenja kumnikazi.

Isibonelo, ukuhlolwa okwenziwa ososayensi kubonise ukuthi izinja ezineminyaka eyi-8 zenza imiyalo embi kakhulu kunezinyanga ezingu-5. Kodwa-ke, okuthakazelisayo yilokho kanye kulezo zimo lapho umyalo unikezwe umnikazi, hhayi ngumuntu ongamazi. Ekukhulumeni nabantu ongabazi, amakhono afundiwe awazange aphume enkumbulweni yomdlwane.

Futhi kule minyaka, izinja zinamandla aphansi okulawula imizwelo, futhi ukusabela ekushukumiseni okuthile kwanda.

Izinja ezisakhula zinamathuba amaningi okuhlola umhlaba wangaphandle kunokuhlala ziseduze nomnikazi wazo.

Kodwa, futhi, siyaqaphela ukuthi konke lokhu kuba yisithiyo ekusebenzelaneni nenja uma amaphutha enziwe ngaphambili. Uma abengekho amaphutha amabi, ungakwazi “ukweqa” ubusha besilwane esifuywayo ngaphandle kokuqaphela.

Okufanele ukwenze ngenja yentsha

Qhubeka nokuzivocavoca nesilwane sakho ngokuqiniswa okuhle. Kodwa kungase kudingeke ucabangele kabusha izinhlobo zokuqinisa. Khumbula ukuthi isikhuthazo akuyona into oyibheka njengaleyo, kodwa yini edingekayo, ebalulekile futhi ethakazelisayo enja ngalesi sikhathi. Ngokwesibonelo, kungase kube ukuxhumana nezihlobo, hhayi ucezu lokudla okomile.

Kunenqwaba yemidlalo nokuzivocavoca okuhloswe ngayo ukuthuthukisa ukuzithiba, ukushintsha ukunaka, ukulinganisa injabulo kanye nokuvimbela, kanye nokwenza ngcono ukuxhumana nomnikazi. Ungabanaki.

Zizwe ukhululekile ukubuyela “enkulisa” uma ubona ukuthi umdlwane awulandeli umyalo obonakala ujwayelekile. Buyela esigabeni sangaphambilini sokuqeqeshwa futhi uqinise ikhono futhi ngaphambi kokwenza umsebenzi ube nzima kakhulu.

Nikeza inja yakho esemusha ithuba lokuhlola umhlaba oyizungezile. Khumbula ukuthi ubude besikhathi esincane sokuhamba kule minyaka (uma ingekho imingcele yezempilo) amahora angu-3 - 3,5 ngosuku. Futhi uma unethuba, ke ngaphezulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhamba kufanele kube okuhlukahlukene futhi kujabulise. ngokusebenzisana kwakho. Futhi ungathola ukuthi ubani ongalungile ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ekhaya. Uma ngesizathu esithile ungakwazi ukusiyeka isilwane sakho sihambe, thola intambo ende (okungenani amamitha angu-5, okuningi kungcono).

Lawula ukuxhumana nezinye izinja. Intsha ayiseyona imidlwane enesimo sokungavikeleki. Futhi uma inja yakho ingakwazi ukuxhumana nezihlobo ngesizotha, ingase isabele ngobudlova ekungabini nenhlonipho. Ngakho-ke lapho uxhumana nezinye izinja, cabangela indlela ezizizwa ngayo, ubuke imizimba yazo futhi uthathe ikhefu ngesikhathi.

Ngokuvamile, njengoba kuphawuliwe ngenhla, uma kungekho amaphutha amakhulu enziwe esigabeni sangaphambilini, ukuthomba akwesabisi njengoba kuchazwe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Uma umngane wakho onemilenze emine eye wahlakulela ukunamathela okuphephile kuwe, ethanda ukuhlanganyela futhi ezimisele ukubambisana, uzoqhubeka nokujabulela ukusebenzisana kwakho njengakuqala.

Uma uzizwa ukhungathekile futhi isimo singalawuleki, ungangabazi ukufuna usizo kuchwepheshe onobuntu.