Amathiphu ezilwane ezifuywayo amasha okwamukela ngemfudumalo

Uthande umngane wakho onemilenze emine endaweni yokukhosela futhi usulungele ukumyisa ekhaya. Yini okufanele yenziwe kuleli cala?

Lapho uthola isilwane esifuywayo endaweni yokukhosela, cishe awazi lutho ngaye nangempilo yakhe, ngakho-ke kungcono ukubuza izisebenzi zokukhosela. Nakuba kungase kuvele ukuthi nabo abawazi umlando womngane wakho omusha. Izilwane ezihlukene zifika endaweni yokukhosela: kokubili abangenamakhaya nalabo abanikazi bazo okwakudingeka bazinikeze ngenxa yokuthutha.

Indlu (noma umgwaqo) lapho inja yayihlala khona ngaphambi kokuba nihlangane, ibumba isimo sayo sengqondo kanye nobudlelwano nabantu, ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokuba ulethe ingane ethambile ekhaya, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka mayelana nesikhathi sayo esidlule. Umngane wakho omusha angase abe namahloni noma ethuswe yiwo wonke ama-hype. Nawa amanye amathiphu okuthi ungalungiselela kanjani ikhaya lakho kanye namalungu omndeni wakho umcimbi ofana nomngane omusha; bayophinde basize inja ngokwayo ukuba isinde kalula ekuhambeni.

Ngaphambi kokuletha umngane omusha ekhaya

Kudingekani ukuze uthole inja? Okokuqala, udinga ukulungisa indlu futhi uthenge izinto ezidingekayo zesilwane. Cabanga ngakho konke kusukela kulokho izitsha zokudla namanzi ahlanzekile ukuthenga isilwane sakho ukuthi hlobo luni kocingo ukufaka kusayithi uma uhlala ngaphandle kwedolobha futhi yiziphi amathoyizi uzodinga. (I-plush ethambile? Ihlafuna irabha? Izinketho eziningi!)

Nakhu okufanele nakanjani ube nakho ngokubonakala kwenja endlini (uhlu lungangezelelwa): izitsha, ikhola enethegi yenja, i-leash, yonke into yokuzilungisa, i-scoop, izikhwama kanye nombhede othambile, okhululekile.

Uyayisa inja ekhaya? Faka ucingo lwezingane endleleni eya emakamelweni lapho isilwane esifuywayo singavunyelwe.

Uma kuziwa ekudleni, khetha ukudla okufuywayo kuye ngeminyaka, impilo, kanye nezidingo zomuntu ngamunye. Ungadangali uma isilwane sakho esifuywayo singakuthandi ukudla ekuqaleni. Ukufundisa inja ukudla okusha kuyinqubo yokuzama nephutha. Lokhu kungase kuthathe izinsuku ezimbalwa.

Ingabe uthatha inja futhi ingabe lesi isilwane sakho sokuqala? Thola udokotela wezilwane omuhle endaweni yangakini bese uyisa inja yakho kuye ngokushesha ukuze iyohlolwa. Uma usuvele unodokotela wezilwane obonisana nawe ngezilwane ezifuywayo, thintana naye ngaphambi kokuba ulethe umngane omusha ekhaya futhi ucele iseluleko mayelana nendlela yokwamukela inja yakho ngemfudumalo.

Uma abantu abaningi kanye/noma izingane zizobe zinakekela isilwane esifuywayo esisha, sabalalisa imithwalo yemfanelo kusenesikhathi: awufuni inja yondliwe noma iphuthe uhambo oludingeka kakhulu ngoba othile akekho esimisweni.

Ikhaya

Kokubili umdlwane nenja endala kuzodinga isikhathi sokujwayela ikhaya elisha. Ngokufanelekile, kufanele uchithe isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka ekhaya nengane yakho. Isikhathi sokulungisa sizohamba kangcono uma unethuba lokuba nenja kusukela ekuqaleni isonto noma amabili.

Kuye ngesimo sengqondo, inja izonamathela ngokushesha kuwe futhi ikhululeke, noma ekuqaleni ibe manqikanqika ukuxhumana futhi ihoxiswe. Uma inja yesaba futhi inamahloni, ungayisiza ukuba ijwayele insimu entsha. Udinga ukwenza kancane. Mvumele ahlole ikhaya elisha ngendlela afuna ngayo, amnike isikhathi esiningi sokuhogela nokusesha. Uma unezingane ezincane ekhaya, zigade njalo uma zinenja yakho. Isilwane esifuywayo akufanele silokhu siphululwa futhi sicinywe: ukuziphatha okunjalo kanye nendawo engajwayelekile kungasenza sikhathazeke, futhi isikhathi sokulutheka sizohlala isikhathi eside.

Ithoyilethi qeqesha inja yakho kuqala. Ngisho noma konke bekuhamba kahle ngomngane wakho omusha endaweni yokukhosela, ukuphoxeka kungenzeka endaweni ongayijwayele. Qala ngaso leso sikhathi futhi ungaguquguquki. I-Petcha, ingosi yokunakekela izilwane ezifuywayo, iyagcizelela: “Khumbula umthetho omuhle: udinga ukuyilungisa ngaso leso sikhathi inja.” Ngamanye amazwi, uma uthethisa isilwane sakho ngemva kokwenza okuthile okungalungile, kuyoba nomqondo omncane. Nokho, ukuziphatha okuhle okuvuzayo kuhlala kusebenza kakhulu kunokuthethisa ukuziphatha okubi. Uma udumisa noma uphatha inja yakho lapho iya endlini yangasese ngaphandle, izozimisela nakakhulu ukwenza kanjalo esikhathini esizayo.

Ngaphezu kokufunda imithetho yendlu, cishe ufuna ukuqeqesha isilwane sakho. Ukuqeqeshwa komdlwane kufanele kuqale emasontweni angu-7-8 ubudala, kodwa izinja ezindala zingakwazi futhi kufanele ziqeqeshwe futhi. Ukuqeqeshwa akuyona nje indlela eqinisekile yokufundisa isilwane sakho amaqhinga ahlukene, kodwa futhi kuyithuba elihle lokusondela kuye. Izinja zithanda ukujabulisa umholi wazo futhi zifuna ukufunda. Uma umngane wakho onemilenze emine esekwazi kahle imiyalo eyisisekelo ethi “hlala”, “yima” kanye “phansi”, ungazama imiyalo ethuthuke kakhulu njengokuthi “nikeza isidladla”, “giqeka” kanye “nokulanda”. Ukuqeqeshwa kwenja kuhlobene ngokuqondile nekhono lakho lokuyiphatha futhi ube nesineke lapho izama ukuqonda ukuthi yini edingekayo kuyo.

Ubusuku yinto entsha yezinja ezisendlini, ikakhulukazi imidlwane. Ekuqaleni, umdlwane ungase ukhale futhi uzomhawukela, kodwa kungcono ukumvumela ukuba aqonde imithetho eyisisekelo kusukela ekuqaleni. Kumele azi ukuthi ebusuku angalala esibayeni sakhe noma esofeni futhi ekuseni ngeke unyamalale ndawo. Lokhu kusebenza nemithetho eminingi yokuziphatha: uma uvumela isilwane sakho into ethile ngoba nje sisanda ekhaya lakho, kuyoba nzima kakhulu kuye ukuqonda imithetho. Ngakho-ke, uma ungafuni ukuba agibele ifenisha, ungamvumeli ukuba akwenze, ngisho nalapho uhlezi noma ulele, ngaphandle kwalokho inja yakho izoba nesibindi kakhulu.

Futhi into yokugcina: okokuqala, zama ukwenza umoya ekhaya uzole futhi uthule, ngaphandle kwemisindo enomsindo kanye nokungasebenzi kahle. Uma kungenjalo, inja yakho ingase yethuke futhi ihoxiswe. Gcina ukuthula nokuthula, vumela isilwane sakho sizitholele ikhaya elisha, futhi lapho siqala ukujwayela kancane kancane indawo entsha, ungabuyela kusigqi esivamile sokuphila.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu lapho usebenza nesilwane esisha ukubekezela nokunakekela. Ngenxa yabo, inja izoba umngane wakho weqiniso ukuphila kwakho konke!