Kungenzeka yini ukucasulwa yinja

Abanye abanikazi “njengezinyathelo zemfundo” bacasulwa izinja futhi bayeke ukukhuluma nazo. Ziba. Kodwa kungenzeka yini ukucasulwa yinja? Futhi izinja zikubona kanjani ukuziphatha kwethu?

Okokuqala, udinga ukuphendula umbuzo wokuthi izinja ziyakuqonda yini ukucasuka. Yebo, bangajabula, badabuke, bathukuthele, banyanye, besabe. Kodwa ukucasuka kuwumuzwa oyinkimbinkimbi, futhi akukakafakazelwa ukuthi izinja ziyakwazi ukubhekana nakho. Kunalokho, ukukholelwa ukuthi izinja zicasukile futhi ziqonde icala kuwukubonakaliswa kwe-anthropomorphism - ukuchaza izimfanelo zomuntu kuzo. Futhi uma bengazi ukuthi kuyini, khona-ke ukuziphatha okunjalo komnikazi kungenzeka kakhulu ukubadide kunokuba "ufundise ingqondo".

Noma kunjalo, iqiniso lokuthi umuntu uyayiziba inja, uyasabela, futhi abukhali impela. Okusho ukuthi, ukuziphatha, hhayi umuzwa. Ngokunokwenzeka, lokhu kwenzeka ngoba umuntu wenja ungumthombo wezinsiza ezibalulekile nezinzwa ezimnandi, futhi "ukunganaki" kuye kuphuca inja lawa mabhonasi. Yiqiniso, esimweni esinjalo, noma ubani uzokhathazeka.

Kodwa ingabe kufanelekile ukusebenzisa le ndlela njengemfundo?

Lapha kufanele sicabangele ukuthi umuntu ucasulwa yinja kaningi uma sekudlule isikhathi ngemuva “kobugebengu” bayo. Ngokwesibonelo, ufika ekhaya futhi uthole izicathulo ezigayiwe noma iphepha lodonga elidabukile. Futhi ngokudelela iyeka ukukhuluma nenja. Kodwa inja ayiboni lokhu njengokusabela "kwecala", eselivele likhohliwe ukucabanga ngalo (futhi cishe ayizange icabange kanjalo), kodwa njengenhlangano yokufika kwakho. Futhi akaqondi ukuthi kungani uvele waphelelwa isithakazelo kuye futhi wamphuca amalungelo ahlobene nomphakathi wakho. Okusho ukuthi, isijeziso kuleli cala asikafiki futhi asifanele. Ngakho, kucekela phansi kuphela ukuthintana nomnikazi.

Ukuze kube nobulungisa, kunendlela "yesikhathi sokuphuma" lapho inja, isibonelo, ixoshwa ekamelweni uma yenze okuthile okungamukeleki. Kodwa isebenza kuphela uma kwenzeka ngesikhathi "sokungaziphathi kahle". Futhi ihlala imizuzwana embalwa, hhayi amahora. Ngemva kwalokho, inja kumele ibuyisane.

Yiqiniso, isilwane esifuywayo sidinga ukuchazwa "imithetho yehostela". Kodwa ungakwenza lokhu ngosizo lokuqiniswa okuhle, ukufundisa ukuziphatha okufunayo nokuvimbela okungathandeki. Futhi kungcono ukushiya konke ukuhlambalaza nokungazi ukuxhumana nohlobo lwakho, uma uthanda ngempela izindlela ezinjalo zokuxhumana.