Indlela yokuhamba nomdlwane nokuthi yikuphi umsebenzi womzimba omuhle kuye

Wonke umuntu owake waba seduze kwemidlwane uyazi ukuthi angamabhola amancane anamandla. Umsebenzi, umkhaya, nokuzilibazisa kukushiyela isikhathi esincane sokuqeqesha umdlwane wakho futhi uwufundise ukugcina indlu ihlanzekile, futhi ukuthola isikhathi sokulawula umsebenzi wayo ongokomzimba kungase kube nzima nakakhulu. Khumbula: umdlwane osebenzayo umdlwane onempilo. Ukugcina umdlwane wakho usebenza yingxenye ebalulekile yokuwugcina unempilo nokuqinisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho.

Kungani umsebenzi womzimba ubaluleke kangaka

Ukuzivocavoca umzimba akubalulekile nje kuphela enhlalakahleni yenja yakho ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kodwa futhi kusiza ukwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile phakathi kwakho nesilwane sakho esifuywayo futhi usigcine impilo yakho yonke. Ukuzivocavoca njalo kuhamba ibanga elide ekugcineni umuntu enempilo futhi ejabule - kungashiwo okufanayo ngomdlwane.

• Ukuzivocavoca kuvimbela ukukhuluphala kanye nezingozi zezempilo ezihlobene nakho.
• Qinisa isimiso senhliziyo nemithambo yegazi.
• Ngokuhamba njalo ngeshejuli, kuba lula ukuqeqesha ekhaya.
• Umdlwane ukwazi kangcono ukubhekana nokungabikho kwakho.
• Ngokukhuthazwa ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo nangokomphakathi, izinkinga zokuziphatha ziyancishiswa.
• Izinkinga zokugaya ukudla kanye nengozi yokuqunjelwa iyancipha.
• Ithuthukisa ubuhlakani.
• Ukwenyuka ukuzethemba nokuzethemba, ikakhulukazi emidlwaneni enamahloni.
• Isisindo siyalawulwa.
• Iqinisa ukuxhumana nabantu nezinye izinja.

Ukuziphatha okulimazayo

Umsebenzi onempilo uzogcina isilwane sakho sikude nokuziphatha kwezinkinga. Ngokuvamile, izinja zifuywa ukuze zenze umsebenzi othile, njengokwelusa, ukuzingela, noma ukugada. Ngakho-ke, umdlwane uzofuna ukusebenza kakhulu ngokomzimba futhi uhambe ngaphandle kakhulu. Uma kungenakwenzeka ukunikeza amandla, uthuthukisa ukuziphatha okulimazayo.

• I-hyperactivity kanye nokungahlaliseki ebusuku.
• Ukuhlafuna, ukumba, ukunwaya.
• Ukumba kudoti.
• Ukuketula ifenisha nokugxumela abantu.
• Ukuziphatha kokugabadela.
• Imidlalo enzima kanye nesifiso sokuluma umnikazi.
• Ukukhonkotha ngokweqile nokukhala.

Umdlwane udinga umsebenzi ongakanani womzimba?

Nakuba imidlwane inamandla kunezinja ezindala, idinga ukuvivinya umzimba okuncane kakhulu. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba ngokweqile kungabangela ukukhathala nokulimala kwamalunga, ikakhulukazi emidlwaneni emikhulu yohlobo. Izidingo zokuzivocavoca ziyahlukahluka kuye ngohlobo oluthile, kodwa zonke izinja kufanele zihambe okungenani kanye noma kabili ngosuku. Ubude besikhathi sokuhamba emidlwaneni kufanele bukhuphuke ngemizuzu emi-5 nenyanga ngayinye yokuphila. Ekugcineni, udinga ukungena embusweni wokuhamba ngezinyawo ezimbili ngosuku. Isibonelo, umdlwane onezinyanga ezintathu ubudala kufanele uhambe futhi ugijime imizuzu engu-15 nsuku zonke, umdlwane onezinyanga ezine ubudala imizuzu engu-20, njalonjalo.

Ungawunikeza kanjani umdlwane umsebenzi womzimba

Ngisho noma unegceke elikhulu lapho umdlwane ungagijima khona, lokhu akwanele kuye, ngoba unamandla amaningi. Ukuhamba okufushane nokugijima kuwukuzivocavoca okunempilo kwakho nobabili nomlingani wakho. Imidlalo enemithetho ecacile, njengokuthi “letha impango” noma ukudonsa impi, isiza nokuqinisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho nomdlwane wakho futhi imfundise ukuzithiba. Uma inja yakho isekhaya yodwa, yigcine imatasa ngamathoyizi ahlafunwayo kanye neziphakeli zendida.

Gwema ukuqeqeshwa komdlwane okunzima okungaholela ekulimaleni noma ezinkingeni zempilo impilo yakho yonke. Ukuqeqeshwa okuqinisiwe ukugijima kakhulu, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili noma ukushushuluza eqhweni nenja ebambelele entambo, umdlalo omude kakhulu "wokulanda impango" nokuhamba ngezinyawo okude ngesivinini esisheshayo.

Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe mayelana nendlela yokuzivocavoca inja yakho, hlola lesi sihloko esiwusizo.