Indlela yokulawula ikati?

AbaseGibhithe bafuywa amakati eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane ezingu-5-6 edlule. Futhi ngisho nangaphambi kwabaseGibhithe, lokhu kwenziwa abakhileyo eTurkey naseKrethe. Ngeke sisakwazi ukwazi ukuthi ikati lokuqala emlandweni lathambisa nini futhi ngobani, kodwa le nqubo yaqala okungenani eminyakeni eyi-10 edlule.

Futhi yini esivimbela ukuba singaphindi isenzo sokhokho bethu? Kulungile: lutho. Ngokungafani nabaseGibhithe, sinakho konke esikudingayo kulokhu: amathani olwazi ezincwadini naku-inthanethi, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo yezilwane, amathoyizi kanye nokuphatha okunempilo okuzosiza ukunqoba inhliziyo yomzingeli wasekhaya. Okubalulekile ukuthi ubekezele.

Inqubo yokufuya ikati ingathatha amasonto ambalwa, noma mhlawumbe izinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngeke nje, kodwa ngenxa yalokho uzothola umngane weqiniso, onothando. Ingabe uyilungele inselele? Bese sihamba!

Ikati lilula ukulithambisa kunekati elikhulile. Ilukuluku lakhe lemvelo lobungane lizokusiza. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izinyane lekati liqaphe kangakanani, ilukuluku ekugcineni liyokunqoba ukwesaba. Ingane izozivumelanisa ngokushesha nezimo ezintsha, ifunde ukuxhumana namalungu omndeni futhi izizwe isekhaya. Udinga kuphela ukumenzela indawo ephephile futhi umnikeze isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nezimo.

Amakati adinga isikhathi esingaphezu kwamasonto amabili ukuze ajwayele indawo entsha nabanikazi. Kodwa uma ingane yayinokuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile kokuxhumana nabantu, kuzothatha isikhathi esengeziwe.

• Abasizi bakho abakhulu ukubekezela, amathoyizi nokudla okunempilo. Ungazami ngokushesha ukuthatha kitten ezandleni zakho. Okokuqala udinga ukuthola ukwethenjwa kwakhe futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uza kuwe ukuze athole uthando.

• Misa indawo yokucasha izinyane lekati: kungaba yindlu ekhethekile yamakati noma ibhokisi elinemibhede. Ungakhohlwa ukubeka isitsha samanzi eduze kwayo!

• Yenza umthetho ukuthi ungaliphazamisi ikati ngenkathi liphumule endaweni yalo yokukhosela. Vumela ikati "lihlale ngaphandle" endlini. Ngemva kokuphola, nakanjani uzohamba ayofunda umhlaba omzungezile.

• Ukuze uqalise, vele ube segunjini elilodwa nekati, khuluma nayo ngomoya ophansi, uyinikeze izibiliboco, futhi uyifake emdlalweni. Kuyivelakancane ukuthi izinyane lekati likwazi ukumelana ne-teaser noma ibhola.

• Uma umntwana exhumana naye, kuhle. Uma kungenjalo, akunankinga, yiyeke bese uzama futhi ngokuzayo.

Imithetho yokuthambisa izinyane lekati ngokuvamile iyafana neyekati elikhulile.

• Isinyathelo 1. Lungisa igumbi

Lungiselela ikhaya lakho lesilwane sakho. Faka isivikelo emafasiteleni nasezicabheni, susa izinto eziyingozi phansi nasemashalofini, faka izintambo namasokhethi.

Ikati lizodinga indlu yalo: kungaba ibhokisi elilula elinemibhede, umbhede noma indlu ekhethekile yamakati. Kungcono ukuthenga ikheji yezilwane ezifuywayo. Ungabeka indlu, nezitsha, kanye nethreyi kuyo. I-cage isiza kakhulu ezigabeni zokuqala zemfundo nasesikhathini esizayo. Kuyo, isilwane esifuywayo sihlala siphephile.

Ikati lizozizwa liphephile ngokushesha uma ukukhanya kwegumbi kufiphele futhi uma kuthulile. Zama ukwakha umoya okhululekile futhi ozolile.

• Isinyathelo sesi-2. Nikeza isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nezimo

Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuthi ikati lizijwayele? Konke kuncike ekatini ngalinye. Ngezinye izikhathi kuthatha amahora ambalwa kuphela, ngezinye izikhathi izinsuku ezimbalwa noma amasonto.

Ikati aliphumule ngokuthula endaweni yalo yokukhosela. Ungamkhiphi endlini, ungazami ukumlanda. Amahora okuqala angu-3-4 kungcono ukungaphazamisi nhlobo ikati. Mshiye yedwa. Ungakhohlwa ukubeka isitsha samanzi kanye nethreyi ekamelweni.

Ngemva kwamahora angu-3-4, nikeza ikati ukuthi lidle. Kuhle uma efika ngokushesha esitsheni futhi eqala ukudla phambi kwakho. Kodwa uma ikati lesaba, shiya igumbi isikhashana ukuze lidle yedwa.

Ungalibheki ikati ngqo emehlweni, ungazami “ukulibheka”. Lokhu kuzojikisa isilwane kuwe.

• Isinyathelo 3Khawulela Oxhumana Nabo

Ikhaya elisha licindezela isilwane esifuywayo. Ukucindezeleka okukhulu nakakhulu ukuxhumana okuphoqelelwe nabantu ongabazi nezilwane.

Uma kungenzeka, vikela ikati ekuxhumaneni namanye amalungu omndeni. Okokuqala, kufanele ajwayele indawo entsha kanye nomuntu oyedwa - umnikazi.

• Isinyathelo 4. Xhumana kodwa ungathinti

Kancane kancane chitha isikhathi esiningi eduze nekati lakho. Ungamthinti uma engakakulungeli. Vele uhambe ngebhizinisi lakho futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukhulume ngomoya ophansi nekati. Futhi yebo, awudingi ukukhuluma. Sebenza kukhompuyutha noma ufunde incwadi ukuze ikati likubone. Umsebenzi wakho uwukujwayela umphakathi wakho, ukukhombisa ukuthi awumsabisi ngalutho.

Zama ukungenzi umsindo noma ukunyakaza okungazelelwe ukuze ungesabi isilwane esifuywayo.

• Isinyathelo 5. Dlala futhi wethembe

Lapho ikati lijwayela indawo entsha kancane, zama ukulifaka emdlalweni. Thola i-teaser ekhethekile enezimpaphe ezi-fluffy, ibhola noma amathoyizi ane-catnip - kunzima ukumelana nawo.

Uma ikati liqala ukudlala ngokushesha, kuhle. Uma kungenjalo, hlehlisa leli bhizinisi isikhashana. Zama futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa.

Esigabeni sokuthambisa, sincoma ukuthi ugqoke izingubo ezinemikhono emide ukuze uzivikele ekuklwebheni okungenzeka.

• Isinyathelo 6. Ukuphatha okumnandi

Umsizi wokuqeqesha ikati osebenza kahle kakhulu uyimpatho. Into eyinhloko ukuthi kube usizo: phakathi nalesi sikhathi esinzima, izinkinga zesisu zizobe zingafaneleki kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuthenga ukuphatha okukhethekile okulinganiselwe kwamakati.

Nikeza ikati lakho ubumnandi entendeni yesandla sakho. Inhloso yethu ukuthi eze ngemuva kwakhe azitike ngaye. Ngokuvamile amakati athatha isikhathi eside ukunquma ngalesi sinyathelo, bese ethatha ngokushesha ubumnandi bese ebaleka. Okokuqala, lokhu nakho kuhle kakhulu! Kodwa ukuze welule ukuthintana nesilwane sakho esifuywayo futhi usijwayelane nawe ngokushesha, ungazama iqhinga futhi usebenzise izibiliboco eziwuketshezi (njengezithako eziwuketshezi ze-Mnyams cream). Amakati afana noketshezi aludla kakhulu kunokudla okomile (khumbula ukuthi izilwane ezifuywayo zithanda kanjani ukukhotha ijeli ekudleni okuwuketshezi?). Ubuhle bakho kuzomele buhlale ukuze bakhothe ezinye izibiliboco esandleni sakho futhi uzothola ukuthintana okwengeziwe.

Ngenkathi ikati lidla esandleni sakho, libuke ngomoya ophansi. Khuluma naye ngomoya ophansi. Ungajahi ukumbamba.

• Isinyathelo 7. Yethula isandla 

Kancane kancane siqala ingxenye eyinhloko yokufuywa kwethu. Manje umsebenzi wethu ukwethula ikati ezibanjeni. Futhi futhi, into esemqoka akuyona ukushesha!

Ungalinge ufinyelele ikati, ungazami ukulishaya. Vele ubeke isandla sakho phansi eduze kwekati. Mnikeze ithuba lokuza esandleni sakho, asihogele, asihlikihle. Uma ikati lingalingani, ungabeka ukwelapha esandleni sakho. Akusebenzanga? Ayikho inkinga. Zama futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa.

• Isinyathelo sesi-8: Ayina ngendlela efanele

Kuphela ngemva kokuba ikati lifunde ukusondela esandleni sakho ngaphandle kokwesaba, ekugcineni ungazama ukusishaya!

Naka kakhulu ukusabela kwekati lakho. Uma ehlehla futhi ehayiza, myeke bese ubuyela emaphuzwini adlule. Khuluma nekati ukude izinsuku ezimbalwa, bese uyazama futhi.

Bekezela: akukho ngcindezi! Uma kungenjalo, wonke umsebenzi uzokwehla.

• Isinyathelo 9. Thatha indlela efanele

Ingabe ikati liyakuvumela ukutotoswa? Kuhle kakhulu. Khona-ke ungadlulela esinyathelweni esilandelayo bese uzama ukumphakamisa. Ukuze wenze lokhu, vula ngobumnene ikati ngemuva kwakho futhi uliphakamise kule ndawo, ulibeke emadolweni akho, ulishaye. Uma ikati liqhuma, ungalibambeli ngenkani. Sicela uzame futhi emuva kwesikhathi.

• Isinyathelo 10. Zijwayeze ukukama

Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukujwayela ikati ukukama. Ukuhlanganisa akuyona nje ukunakekelwa kwezinwele nesikhumba, kodwa futhi ukuxhumana okujabulisayo nomnikazi.

Kubalulekile ukukhetha ithuluzi elifanele ikati lakho futhi lizokwenza inqubo ikhululeke. Kungaba i-comb-mittens, i-furminator, ibhulashi elishelelayo noma ikamu.

• Isinyathelo 11: Cela usizo

Uma sekudlule izinsuku ezimbalwa, futhi ikati lisenamahloni kakhulu futhi akukho ngcono ekuziphatheni kwakhe, thintana ne-zoopsychologist. Kuzokusiza ukuthi uthole indlela efanele yesilwane sakho.

Izilwane ezilimele zingesaba kakhulu abantu, futhi ngaphandle kosizo lochwepheshe abakwazi ukubhekana nazo.

Sithemba ukuthi izincomo zethu zizokusiza ukuthi ulawule ikati futhi uthole kumuntu wakhe umngane othembeke kakhulu, ozinikele futhi obonga kakhulu. Futhi sibonga kusengaphambili ngesineke sakho nomsebenzi, ngothando lwakho lwezilwane. Isilwane sakho sinenhlanhla enkulu ngokuba nawe!