Indlela yokwenza izinja ezimbili abangane?

Ukuhlalisana kwenja, kuhlanganise nokufaka kuyo amakhono okuxhumana adingekayo nezinye izinja, kuyisici esibalulekile sokukhuliswa nokukhuliswa kwayo, futhi ukunakwa okukhulu kufanele kukhokhwe kulokhu. Uma esikhathini esizayo umnikazi ehlela ukuthola inja yesibili noma ezithola esesimweni lapho, ngesizathu esithile noma esinye, enye inja ingase ivele endlini, khona-ke isipiliyoni esitholwe inja nokuziphatha okulungile okufakwe kuyo kuzosiza. ukusungula ubudlelwano obungenazingxabano. Lokhu kuzoqeda ulaka, umbango, ukwesaba, ukungavikeleki nokunye ukuziphatha okungafuneki okungase kuboniswe isilwane esifuywayo.

Ukuqala kuphi?

Udinga ukuqala ngomdlwane. Kusebudlwaneni lapho kubekwa khona izisekelo zokuhlalisana kwabantu futhi kugxiliswe isipiliyoni sokuxhumana nezihlobo. Uma uqala ukukhipha umdlwane wakho ngaphandle, zama ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ukuhamba akukona nje kuphela ukuphatha izidingo zemvelo kanye ne-promenade elula, kodwa futhi kuhlanganisa ukudlala nontanga noma izinja ezindala ezithembekile. Thatha i-puppy neqembu labangane bese uzama ukuhlela umhlangano nabo ekuhambeni kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, isibonelo, ngokuvumelana ngesikhathi sokuhamba nabanye abanikazi bezinja. Lapho wenza lokhu ngokushesha, kulapho umdlwane wakho uzoqala ukuthola amakhono okuxhumana awadingayo, futhi esikhathini esizayo ngeke abone ezinye izinja njengento yokulwa noma, ngokuphambene, abonise ubugwala nokungazethembi.

Okwesibili, kuyadingeka ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ukuhamba nokuxhumana nezinye izinja akuthuthuki kube ukuncintisana kanye nomzamo wokulungisa izinto ekulweni.

Cindezela ngokuqinile izinhloso zenja yakho yokucasula isimo sokungqubuzana futhi ungayivumeli ukuba yenze kanjalo ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo.

Abanikazi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukubonisa amandla okuvela kumdlwane noma inja encane kuyinto enhle esiza isilwane ukuba sizizwe siqiniseka futhi sesaba esikhathini esizayo. Leli iphutha, futhi libi kakhulu. I-indulgences eboniswe ekuziphatheni okunjalo kwenja kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi ikhula i-pugnacious, i-aggressive futhi ingathinteki maqondana nezinye izilwane, okuyinto, yiqiniso, yenza kube nzima ukuhamba nayo futhi ixhumane nezinye izilwane.

Ngokuya ngezincomo ezichazwe ngenhla, ukuxhumana okuqhubekayo kwenja yakho nezinye izilwane ngeke kukudalele izinkinga ezikhethekile wena noma isilwane sakho esifuywayo. Kodwa-ke, isimo singase siphakame lapho enye inja evele endlini ingahlali ngokwanele futhi ikude nokumiswa ngokuthula. Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi yini okufanele yenziwe kuleli cala nendlela yokwenza izinja ezimbili zibe abangane noma, okungenani, zisungule ubukhona bazo obungenazingxabano.

Ake sicabangele izibonelo ezithile:

1. Inja endala nomdlwane okwavela endlini

Ezinjeni esezikhulile, ngokwemvelo, akuvumelekile - awukwazi ukucasula imidlwane. Lokhu kungukuziphatha okunqunyelwe izakhi zofuzo, futhi, njengomthetho, azikho izinkinga ezikhethekile ekukhulumisaneni phakathi kwenja endala kanye ne-puppy. Noma kunjalo, ukubamba iqhaza komnikazi ekusunguleni ubudlelwano obufanele kuyadingeka.

Kwenzenjani:

• Ngemva kokuletha umdlwane endlini, wehlisele phansi futhi uvumele inja endala ihogele ngokucophelela nangokucophelela. Buka indlela inja esabela ngayo futhi ungavumeli izenzo zayo ezisebenzayo mayelana nomdlwane (umzamo wokuluma, ukuqala umdlalo, ukukhonkotha noma ukugquma). Lokhu kungase kuthuse umdlwane futhi kuthinte ubuhlobo bakhe besikhathi esizayo nenja endala. Misa izenzo ezingafuneki zomuntu omdala ngokuvinjelwa;
• Ukunaka komnikazi kuzo zombili izinja kufanele kusatshalaliswe ngokulinganayo. Ukunaka ngokweqile kumdlwane kungabangela umona ohlangothini lwenja endala noma umzamo ngandlela-thile wokuguqula isimo. Ngenxa yalokho, umdlwane ungase ubonwe yinja endala njengombangi ngenhlalakahle yawo;
• Ekuqaleni, yondla izinja ngokwehlukana, ukuze, futhi, ungabangeli umuzwa wokuncintisana kanye nesifiso sokuba nesiqephu se-tastier;
• Gada ukuziphatha komdlwane wakho futhi ungamvumeli ukuthi abonise impatho exakile enjeni endala ebangela ulaka noma ukunganeliseki kwayo. Hlukanisa umdlwane odlalwe ngokweqile futhi othathekile okwesikhashana futhi wehlise umoya;
• Ukuhamba okuhle nemisebenzi. Lapho uhamba, umdlwane ukopisha ngokushesha futhi ngenkuthalo ukuziphatha kwenja endala, okunomthelela omuhle ekukhulisweni kwayo kanye nokutholwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila. Yiqiniso, isimo esisodwa siyadingeka: inja endala kufanele ifundiswe kahle futhi iziphathe ngendlela oyidingayo, hhayi yona;
• Futhi okokugcina. Kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwano phakathi kwezinja, umnikazi uhlala engumahluleli nomfundisi oyinhloko. Noma yiziphi izenzo zakho nemiyalo, ebangelwa ubudlelwano obungalungile phakathi kwezinja, kufanele wenziwe ngendlela engenasici - lokhu kuyisihluthulelo sobukhona obungenazingxabano nobunethezekile bomdlwane (futhi kamuva nenja encane) nenja endala.

2. Izinja ezimbili ezindala, enye yazo eyisaqalayo

Isimo sezinja ezimbili ezindala siyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, ngoba ngayinye yazo ingafuna ubuqhawe. Ngeke kube nezinkinga lapho izinja zikhuliswe ngendlela efanele futhi zingabonakali ngemiqhudelwano engqubuzanayo. Ukuzijwayeza kubonisa ukuthi kukhona ambalwa amapheya anjalo.

Okufanele ngikwenze:

• Yethula izinja ngaphandle ngaphambi kokuletha eyodwa endlini. Kutuswa ukuhlela imihlangano eminingana futhi uqaphe ngokucophelela ukuthi izinja zizosebenzisana kanjani. Umgwaqo ubeka izilwane endaweni elinganayo, kodwa ukubonakala komuntu ongaziwa endaweni yawo kungabangela isimangalo esibucayi esivela enja endala, esongela ukuphenduka impi;
• Akufanele nangaphansi kwezimo izinja zivunyelwe ukubusa zodwa. Vikela inja ebuthakathaka futhi ujezise kanzima umlwi.

  Endlini, inhloko ingumnikazi, ngakho-ke nguwe kuphela ongavumela izinja okuthile, futhi wenqabele okuthile.

  Uma inja ikubona njengomnikazi ogunyaziwe, ngeke kube nezinkinga ngokubonakala kwenja yesibili endlini;

• Bonisa ukunaka okulinganayo kumuntu osanda kufika kanye nomdala, ukuze ungavusi imizwa yomona nokuncintisana;
• Yondla izinja ngokwehlukana ekuqaleni;
• Ukugcina izinja emakamelweni ahlukene noma emagcekeni ngokombono wokusungula ubuhlobo obufanele phakathi kwabo akunikezi umphumela oyifunayo, ngakho-ke zama ukugcina ukuxhumana kwezinja kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi wenze izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwazo ngesikhathi;
• Akufanele uthole inja yesibili uma ungaqiniseki ngokuphelele ngethonya lakho esilwaneni. Ukuhambisa okungangabazeki kwesilwane sakho esifuywayo kuzokuvumela ukuthi usungule ubudlelwano obufanele nezinye izilwane ezisendlini. Ayikho enye indlela.

November 7, 2017

Kuvuselelwe: Disemba 21, 2017