Amakati akhubazekile alithola kanjani ikhaya?

Ngokocwaningo olwenziwa yiPetFinder, izilwane ezifuywayo ezibhekwa “njengezifunwa kancane” zilinda isikhathi esiphindwe kane ukuze zithole ikhaya elisha kunezinye izilwane ezifuywayo. Ngokuvamile, phakathi kwezindawo zokukhosela ezahlanganyela ekuhloleni, amaphesenti angu-19 abonisa ukuthi izilwane ezifuywayo ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zikuthola kunzima kunezinye ukuthola indawo yokuhlala unomphela. Amakati akhubazekile avame ukunganakwa abanikazi abangaba khona ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle. Nakuba bengase babe nezidingo ezikhethekile, ngokuqinisekile bafanelwe uthando oluncane. Nazi izindaba zamakati amathathu akhubazekile kanye nobudlelwano bawo obukhethekile nabanikazi bawo.

Amakati Akhubazekile: Indaba kaMilo noKelly

Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, uKelly wathola okuthile okwakungalindelekile egcekeni lakubo: “Sabona ingane encane yejinja igoqekile ezihlahleni zethu, futhi udladla lwalo lwalulenga ngandlela-thile ngendlela engavamile.” Ikati lalibonakala lingenakhaya, kodwa uKelly wayengenaso isiqiniseko salokho, njengoba wayengaphumanga ukuzoyibona. Ngakho wamshiyela ukudla namanzi, enethemba lokuthi kwakuzomenza akholwe yena nomndeni wakubo. Uthi: “Nokho, saqaphela ngokushesha ukuthi le nkati idinga usizo lwezokwelapha. Umndeni wakhe wonke wazama ukumyenga ukuba amkhiphe ehlathini ukuze amyise kudokotela wezilwane ukuze athole ukwelashwa: “Ekugcineni umkhwenyana wami kwadingeka alale phansi futhi adle ngokuthula aze aphumele kithi!”

Udokotela wezilwane uKelly wayekholelwa ukuthi izinyane lekati lalishayiswe imoto futhi kwakudingeka linqunywe udladla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, udokotela wezilwane wacabanga ukuthi angase abe nokungqubuzana, ngakho-ke amathuba okusinda kwakhe ayemancane. UKelly unqume ukuthatha ithuba, waqamba ikati ngokuthi Milo wakhetha ukumhlinza ukuze akhiphe isitho esilengayo. Uyachaza: “UMilo walulama ehlezi emathangeni ami izinsuku zilandelana futhi wayesasaba wonke umuntu ngaphandle kwami ​​neyodwa yamadodana ethu.

UMilo uzohlanganisa iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ngoMeyi. “Usabasaba abantu abaningi, kodwa usithanda kakhulu mina nomyeni wami, namadodana ethu amabili, nakuba engayiqondi ngaso sonke isikhathi indlela yokulubonisa uthando lwakhe.” Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi ibuphi ubunzima ababhekana nabo, uKelly uyaphendula: “Ngezinye izikhathi uyatatazela uma ecabanga ukuthi uzolahlekelwa ukulinganisela futhi angafaka izinzipho kithina kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kudingeka sibekezele. Iyakwazi ukunyakaza kahle kakhulu, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ithatha kancane ukugxuma futhi ingakwazi ukuwisa izinto. Nalapha futhi, wukuqonda nje ukuthi akukho angakwenza ngakho wena uvele ucoshe izicucu.”

Kwakufanele yini ukuthatha leli thuba ukusindisa impilo kaMilo ngokumnquma isitho sakhe ebesingeke siphile? Kunjalo. UKelly uthi: “Ngeke ngihwebe ngaleli kati nganoma yiliphi elinye emhlabeni. Wangifundisa okuningi ngokubekezela nothando.” Eqinisweni, uMilo ugqugquzele abanye abantu ukuthi bakhethe amakati akhubazekile, ikakhulukazi abanqunyiwe. UKelly uyaphawula: “Umngane wami uJody ukhulisa amakati e-APL (Animal Protective League) eCleveland. Ufuye amakhulu ezilwane, evame ukukhetha lezo ezinezinkinga ezinkulu ezingase zingasindi - futhi cishe zonke ziye zasinda ngenxa yokuthi yena nomyeni wakhe bazithanda kakhulu. Okuwukuphela kohlobo lwekati angazange aluthathe kwaba abanqunyiwe. Kodwa ebona indlela uMilo ayeqhuba kahle ngayo, waqala ukutholwa nabanqunukile. Futhi uJody wangitshela ukuthi uMilo wasindisa amakati ambalwa ngoba wamnika isibindi sokuwathanda ukuze abe ngcono.”

Amakati Akhubazekile: Umlando We-Dublin, i-Nickel ne-Tara

Lapho uTara engenela iDublin enemilenze emithathu, wakuqonda ngokucacile lokho ayezifaka kukho. UTara ungumuntu othanda izilwane, wayenelinye ikati elinemilenze emithathu okuthiwa u-Nickel, ayelithanda kakhulu futhi okwathi ngeshwa, washona ngo-2015. Lapho umngane wakhe emshayela ucingo emtshela ukuthi indawo yokukhosela lapho ayengumthwebuli wezithombe wevolontiya wayenayo. ikati elinemilenze emithathu, uTara, vele, wayengeke alethe izilwane ezifuywayo ezintsha. Uthi: “Ngangivele nginamanye amakati amabili anemilenze emine ngemva kokufa kuka-Nickel, ngakho ngaba nokungabaza, kodwa angikwazanga ukuyeka ukucabanga ngakho, futhi ekugcineni ngancama ngahamba ngayomhlangabeza.” Ngokushesha wayithanda le kitten, wanquma ukuyithatha wayiletha ekhaya ngalobo busuku.

Isinqumo sakhe sokuthatha iDublin sasifana nendlela ayethathe ngayo i-Nickel eminyakeni embalwa ngaphambili. “Ngaya kwaSPCA (Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals) nomngani wami siyobheka ikati elimele alithole ngaphansi kwemoto yakhe. Futhi ngenkathi silapho, ngabona lekati empunga ethandekayo (yayicishe ibe nezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala), yayibonakala yelulela izidladla zayo ngakithi ngemigoqo yekheji. Njengoba uTara nomngane wakhe besondela ekhejini, waqaphela ukuthi izinyane lekati empeleni lalishoda ngengxenye yesidladla. Njengoba indawo yokukhosela yayilinde umnikazi wekati ukuthi axhumane nabo, uTara wabhalisa ohlwini lwabalindile ukuze azithathele ikati. Lapho befika ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, isimo sikaNickel sase siba sibi futhi waba nomkhuhlane. “Ngayibamba ngaqonda kudokotela wezilwane lapho abafike bakhipha khona isidladla sakhe esasisele ngase ngimyisa ekhaya. Sekuphele cishe izinsuku ezintathu, esadla amaphilisi ezinhlungu, isidladla sakhe sasibhandishiwe, kodwa ngasithola ku-wardrobe yami. Kuze kube namuhla angikaqondi ukuthi ufike kanjani lapho, kodwa akukho okungamvimba.”

Amakati akhubazekile adinga uthando nothando lwabanikazi bawo njenganoma yiliphi elinye ikati, kodwa uTara ukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kwabanqunyiwe. “Angazi ukuthi kujwayeleke kangakanani lokhu kumakati anemilenze emithathu, kodwa iDublin iyikati lami elifuywayo, kanjalo neNickel. Unobungani kakhulu, unemfudumalo futhi uyadlala, kodwa hhayi ngendlela efanayo namakati anemilenze emine.” UTara uthola nokuthi abanqunyiwe banesineke kakhulu. “IDublin, njengoNickel, iyikati elinobungane kunawo wonke endlini yethu, inesineke kunazo zonke ezinganeni zami ezine (amawele aneminyaka engu-9, 7 kanye nengu-4 ubudala), ngakho lokho kusho okuningi ngekati.”

Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi yiziphi izinselele abhekana nazo ekunakekeleni iDublin, waphendula: “Okuwukuphela kwento engikhathazayo kakhulu ukuqina kwesidladla sangaphambili esisele… futhi uba nokuphathwa kabi lapho ehlangana nezingane, ngenxa nje yokuthi ukuthi ulahlekelwe isitho! IDublin ishesha kakhulu, ngakho uTara akakhathazeki ngokuthi uhamba kanjani endlini noma uxhumana nezinye izilwane: “Akabi nazo izinkinga lapho egijima, egxuma noma elwa namanye amakati. Ekuxabaneni uyakwazi ukuzimela. Njengoba ingomncane kunabo bonke (icishe ibe neminyaka emithathu ubudala, enye iduna icishe ibe neminyaka emine ubudala, kanti eyensikazi ineminyaka engu-3 noma ngaphezulu), igcwele amandla futhi ivame ukucasula amanye amakati.”

Amakati akhubazekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ashoda ngesitho noma anezimo zezokwelapha, afanelwe uthando nokunakwa okujatshulelwa yila makati amathathu. Ngenxa nje yokuthi angase anganyakazi kakhulu kunamakati anemilenze emine, maningi amathuba okuthi abonise uthando ngokuwanikeza ithuba. Futhi nakuba kungase kukuthathe isikhathi ukubajwayela, badinga umkhaya onothando nendawo yokukhosela njengawo wonke umuntu. Ngakho-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthola ikati elisha, ungalifulathele elidinga ukunakekelwa okwengeziwe - ungase uthole maduzane ukuthi linothando futhi linothando kakhulu kunalokho obukucabanga, futhi angase abe njalo. obukade ukuphupha ngakho.