Yizwa umzimba wakho!

Yizwa umzimba wakho!

Kuyi-axiom ukuthi ukuhlala kahle kuyisisekelo sokuphatha kahle amahhashi. Umgibeli ongenaso isihlalo esifanele akakwazi ukuthonya ihhashi ngendlela efanele.

Abagibeli abaningi bazibuza imibuzo ngezinye izikhathi abangakwazi ngisho nokuthola izimpendulo kubaqeqeshi:

Kungani ihhashi lami lihlala lithatha indlela eyodwa lapho ngigibele?

Kungani ihhashi lami ngezinye izikhathi lizabalaza ngisho nemiyalo elula?

Kungani ihhashi lami lihlale liqinile ngakolunye uhlangothi kunolunye?

Singathola impendulo ku-90% yale mibuzo ngokwethu, ngokusekelwe kulokho esikubonile nemizwa yethu ngenkathi ushayela. Ngokuvamile sigxila kakhulu emsebenzini wehhashi kangangokuthi sikhohlwa ngokuphelele ngathi. Kodwa kungumzimba wethu, noma kunalokho, ikhono lethu lokuyilawula, elinomthelela omkhulu kwikhwalithi yokunyakaza kwehhashi, ibhalansi yayo, ukuqhuba, ukuxhumana. Uma isikhundla sethu siwohloka, asikwazi ukudlulisa kahle incazelo yomyalelo onikezwe ihhashi, ihhashi lilahlekile futhi lididekile.

Izihlalo ezingalungile futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukusetshenziswa okungalungile kwezilawuli, kuthinta kabi isimo somzimba esijwayelekile sakho kokubili umgibeli nehhashi. Ubuwazi ukuthi ngisho nokucinana okuncane okubangelwa i-spasm ku-pelvis yomgibeli kanye neqolo eliphansi kuphazamisa ibhalansi yomzimba wakhe wonke?

Abagibeli abaningi bayazi ukuthi ukusabalalisa okulungile kwesisindo somzimba ehhashini kubaluleke kakhulu: kuphoqa ihhashi ukuthi liqondaniswe. Lapho umgibeli ehlezi egwegwile, ehambisa isisindo esengeziwe ohlangothini olulodwa noma kolunye, i-pelvis yabo ibeka ingcindezi eyengeziwe kulolo hlangothi. Ngenxa yalokho, ihhashi noma lisonta umzimba, noma libona ukunyakaza komgibeli njengomyalo wokuya eceleni. Uma uhlezi uqondile, i-pelvis yakho nayo isezingeni eliphansi, igcina isihlalo sakho sizinzile futhi isiza ukuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yemilayezo yakho nokucaca kwayo ehhashini.

Lapho umgibeli esebenza isikhathi eside, elawula ukufika kwakhe, ihhashi lithuthukisa isimiso esicacile sokuxhumana naye, akadideki, kodwa ukhumbula imilayezo edingekayo ecacile nefanayo. Uma ukuma komgibeli kungalingani, khona-ke kunzima ngehhashi ukumqonda, ngisho nalapho enikezwa ukwenza umyalo olula (isibonelo, ukuphenduka), ngoba isikhathi ngasinye lapho ezwa imilayezo ehlukene, futhi indlela ecacile akuthuthukisiwe ebuchosheni bakhe, impendulo kusethi yokunyakaza komgibeli ojwayelekile - akukho okujwayelekile!

Ngaphakathi kohlaka lwalesi sihloko, ngithanda ukunaka ngokukhethekile izici ezithinta ukufika kwethu. izici esichayeka kuzo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke ngaphandle kokugibela.

Abantu abaningi basebenza emsebenzini wokuziphilisa, bechitha isikhathi sabo esiningi esihlalweni ngemuva kwemonitha. Siphinde sichithe ubusuku bethu sihlezi phambi kwe-TV. Abaningi bathola ukuqeqeshwa ngezimpelasonto kuphela noma izikhathi ezimbalwa ngesonto phakathi nesonto. Imizimba yethu inikezwe ikhono eliyingqayizivele lokuzivumelanisa nezimo nokunxephezela. Futhi uma uchitha isikhathi uzingela kukhompuyutha yakho, inqubo yesinxephezelo iyangena. Isimiso sethu sezinzwa sihlala sithumela amasignali ukusuka ebuchosheni kuya kuzo zonke izitho nangemuva. Ukuze wenze lokhu kudluliselwa kuphumelele, umzimba wethu ufinyeza izingxenye ezithile "zendlela" ukuze unciphise ibanga. Inkinga iphakama lapho ubuchopho bunquma "ukunciphisa" imisipha ethile kumgibeli ohlezi. Ubuchopho buyeka ukubona isidingo sokuthuthukisa leyo misipha esingasebenzisi isikhathi esiningi. Azibhekwa njengezibalulekile. Imisipha yezinqe namathanga ithinteka kakhulu kulo mphumela. Sihlezi - azisebenzi, ngenxa yalokho, ubuchopho "bususa" le misipha ohlwini lwezinto ezibalulekile futhi ithumela izimpawu ezimbalwa lapho. Le misipha ayidabuki, yebo, kodwa uzozwa imiphumela yendlela yakho yokuphila lapho ugibela ihhashi lakho.

Pho yini esingayenza ukuze sizisize?

Indlela elula ukuqala ukunyakaza.

Zama ukusukuma futhi unyakaze okungenani kancane njalo ngemizuzu eyi-10-15. Thola idokhumenti efanele, uye ehhovisi elilandelayo, esikhundleni sokumane ufonele noma ubhalele ozakwenu. Lezi "step reprises" ezincane zizonikeza umphumela omuhle ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Umzimba wethu uklanyelwe ukunyakaza. Ukuma kudala izinkinga eziningi okunzima kakhulu ukuzixazulula uma zingabhekwanga. Khumbula ukuthi ihhashi lakho liwumfanekiso wakho. Uma imisipha yakho iqinile futhi inganwebekanga, khona-ke ihhashi ngeke likwazi ukuphumula. Umzimba wakho udlala indima ebalulekile ekulawuleni ihhashi lakho. Ngokusebenzela ekuthuthukiseni ukuma nokukulawula, uzothola ihhashi ukuthi lihlanganyele nawe ngokuphelele.

U-Valeria Smirnova (ngokusekelwe ezintweni ezivela kusayithi http://www.horseanswerstoday.com)