Uneminyaka emingaki ukuthi kungcono ukuthatha umdlwane?

Uqinisekile ukuthi usukulungele ukubonakala kwenja endlini, unqume ngohlobo futhi uyazi ukuthi uzothathaphi umngane omusha. Kusele ukunquma ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki kungcono ukuthatha umdlwane. Lona umbuzo obalulekile, ngoba kuncike kakhulu ekutheni impilo yakho kanye nenja izoba kanjani.

Impendulo yombuzo othi "Iyiphi iminyaka engcono kakhulu yokuthola umdlwane“Akuyona into engaqondakali, ngoba kuya ngokuthi uyithathelani inja, ekubunjweni komndeni, ukuqashwa kwakho nokunye okuningi.

Ngaphambili kungcono?

Kuyinkolelo evamile ukuthi umdlwane kufanele wamukelwe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ngokushesha nje lapho usukwazi ukudla wodwa. Ngempela, emashumini ambalwa eminyaka adlule kwakuyisiko ukunikeza ingane kubanikazi abasha lapho inenyanga eyodwa ubudala. Kodwa ingabe lesi yisinqumo esifanele?

Ngeshwa cha. Uma umdlwane uhlukana nonina nezingane zakubo kusenesikhathi, lokhu kungabangela izinkinga eziningi. Lapho eneminyaka eyinyanga eyodwa, umdlwane usathembele kakhulu kumama, okhulisa amawundlu, uwafundise imithetho yokuziphatha, kuhlanganise nokuhlanzeka emgodini nokuxhumana nezihlobo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, iminyaka engu-3 - amasonto angu-7 yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukuhlalisana okuyinhloko komdlwane, lapho efunda ukuba yinja, elawula ulimi lwezinhlobo zakhe. Futhi uma engatholi lolu lwazi, impilo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo izoba nzima kakhulu - kuze kube yilapho izinkinga zokuziphatha zizovela.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, eminyakeni eyi-1 inyanga kusesekuseni kakhulu ukugoma, futhi umdlwane usengozini yokugula endaweni entsha.

Yisiphi isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokuthola umdlwane?

Kuze kube manje, kukholakala ukuthi iminyaka elungile yokuthuthela umdlwane emndenini omusha yizinsuku ezingama-60. Kule minyaka, ingane isivele izazi njengenja, ifunde izisekelo zokuxhumana nabameleli bezinhlobo zayo futhi inamandla kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kule minyaka, i-puppy isivele iqeqeshwe (yebo, ngendlela yokudlala), futhi ngeke uphuthelwe isikhathi esiyigugu.

Kodwa-ke, uma kukhona izingane emndenini, kungase kudingeke ukulinda kuze kube yilapho umdlwane unezinyanga ezi-4 kuya kwezingu-5 ubudala. Kule minyaka, i-puppy isivele ikwazi ukufihla uma ikhathele ukuxhumana nezindlalifa zakho, noma izimele, kuyilapho ingencane kangangokuthi izingane zingamlimaza kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi umdlwane ube nesipiliyoni esihle futhi esiphephile nezingane ngenkathi unakekelwa umfuyi.

Uma uthembele ekuwineni eringini yombukiso futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kuwena, kungcono ukulinda kuze kube yilapho umdlwane usukhulile futhi kucaca ukuthi ungathembela emiklomelweni. Ezinyangeni ezimbili, ungakwazi kuphela ukunquma ukuthi inja izokhula kangakanani, ngakho-ke kunengozi yokuthi kuzodingeka uyeke iphupho lokuwina zonke izicoco zobuqhawe endaweni yonke nasezindaweni ezizungezile.

Khumbula ukuthi umdlwane udinga umzamo omkhulu wokuwunakekela, ikakhulukazi, ukuhamba njalo nokudla. Ungakwazi yini ukuhlinzeka ngakho konke lokhu?

Uma kungenjalo, kungase kudingeke ukuthi ucabangele ukuthola inja esikhulile (izinyanga eziyisi-6 noma ngaphezulu). Isilwane esinjalo, cishe, sesivele sijwayele ukuhamba, futhi ungasondla kabili ngosuku. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi useke waqeqeshwa. Kodwa-ke, kunengozi yokuthi inja isivele yakha imikhuba emibi, okuzoba nzima ukuyiqeda kunokuba ukhulise umntwana "kusukela ekuqaleni".

Kunoma yikuphi, ukukhetha kungokwakho. Futhi kunoma yikuphi ubudala othatha inja, ngendlela efanele nesimo sengqondo esifanele, kuzokunika injabulo enkulu futhi ube umngane weqiniso.